"LETS NOT START SHAMING PEOPLE WHO WATCH PORN!"

No desire to shame people who watch porn here, but I think it's okay to shame people who watch porn while actively having contempt for porn stars.

I think we should double shame the ones who talk shit about the people acting in the videos they are enjoying!

Yeah & in 4 years she'll have school paid for while the rest of them (myself included) have loans for the rest of their lives, (minus the trust fund babies).

Feminism: Obsolete since "You Don't Own Me" topped the charts in the 60's.

I enjoy being looked at naked, I have made a profit off such things. That video and the lyrics are very problematic. You can have sexy naked fun time without being a sexist creep, they just don't understand that.

Whenever I hear some blowhard going on about women having no or less libido than men, the first thing that comes to mind is how in species with high levels of sperm competition, the females are generally very, very promiscuous, because they drive the level of sperm competition. Human male genitals are designed for…

But you probably also got the message that it's a common temptation and a great struggle for all men. You probably felt that it's normal to have that desire, but weak to give in to it. Girls are often raised with a strong notion that they aren't even supposed to have the desire.

I still reject your assertion that men are more visually stimulated than women. It makes no sense from a physiological standpoint. I would wager that men consume larger quantities of porn than women not because they are more visually stimulated, but rather it is more socially acceptable (and indeed somewhat expected)…

I think that drive fluctuates and that it's something that's difficult to actually say what an average is. I know when my girls were little they masturbated a lot. Like a shocking degree to me. I had no idea that small girl children like to touch their vaginas pretty much all damned day if you let them. Because it…

It's funny how all these conservative assholes—-or any sexist asshole with repugnant views on women—— find that women have less sex drive than men do. Maybe just around you, asshole. It's like those MRAs who see false rape accusations everywhere because who can know what consent looks like, right? Shockingly…

Yeah, seriously. Spend five seconds on Tumblr and then revisit the "women aren't visual" thing.

Seriously. A quick perusal if any article featuring Tom Hiddleston or Idris Elba or Joseph Gordon Levitt or basically any popular actor would demonstrate how visually stimulated women are. How else do you explain the gratuitous (and awesome) shots of shirtless Chris Hemsworth in Thor 2. They sure as hell didn't…

Living deep in the bible-belt and being a 30-something, vagina-having, marriage-free, childless, world traveling, home owning, sex liking woman with no plans to change any of those things, I get the "why buy the cow" comment quite often.

Women are taught that this is BAD and shameful. Women are taught to never talk about these things - porn, masturbation. Women are taught that men will not love them if they exhibit sexuality, but will not fuck them if they don't.

Have you seen the comments under the article about that Olympic athlete who is saving a litter of puppies as his last tip of the hat to Sochi?

I'm not sure you can divorce any of that from conditioning, though. In college, my roommate literally didn't know that women could masturbate. It's not that she didn't want to; she had just never been exposed to the cultural narrative of female masturbation (while stories about teenage boys masturbating are…

<3 Lindy <3

She's stealing mine and Monsieur's book idea—Everything is a Competition and Sex is a Commodity: LaComtesse and Monsieur's Guide to Healthy Relationships