Well, I like to think that I'm gay in my art and straight in my life. Although, I'm also gay in my life up to the point of intercourse, and then you could say I'm straight. So I guess it depends on how you define gay. If it means whom you have sex with, I guess I'm straight. In the twenties and thirties, they used to…

A friend of mine (gay boy) was INSANE in love with this dude he met through class. And this guy was flirting like crazy. I mean not just hanging out, but arm touching, brushing hair off friend's face, going to his place to watch movie, etc.

I think the Kardashians are more interesting than the royals because the Kardashians are so desperate for fame and attention that they will do ridiculous things just to keep people talking about them. I see your point about Britishness though. (But I don't see your point about butting in at all. You couldn't butt in…

Having experienced this phenomenon myself, I think it's a very odd thing. I had a gay male friend in college who would to this to me, and I later found out, a ton of women. He was gorgeous, charismatic, extremely flirtatious, and very physical, just up to the moment where something would happen. Then he'd draw back…

I've had a really serious hate-on for Franco ever since he wrote that brainjaculate shit-piece about Lindsay Lohan coming to his hotel room DTF and instead he soothed her thirsty v by reading parts of Catcher in the Rye to her. This is in part because I stan for LiLo like a crazed academic mama bear but also because…

Shut up James Franco. You are every dude in my sophomore philosophy class that was convinced of his own profundity and was truly just a huge douchebag. You're not profound. You're just annoying.

Oh you know what the theme song for that should be? "I'm Not Your Toy" by LaRoux.

Eileengency DID NOT say that there's only one way to sex with men. Anal sex isn't the one way to have sex, okay?

I don't think anal sex specifically is a requirement of being gay and I don't think that's what Ellengency was saying either. Surely those other sexual acts count under the "make love/have sex with" label. So those friends of yours would clearly fit under the umbrella of what the OP described.

If they're on the edge I think I would be okay with it, they're exploring and they might actually realize they really like men and would like to try to have a relationship of some kind with a man.
But if they're for sure totally straight and are just doing it for the thrill, that's pretty fucked up.

No, it's offensive to pretend to be a sexuality you're not. It's fucking with people's emotions and it seems to be kind of... delegitimizing GLBTQA orientations.

Just because we're feminists doesn't mean we can't admire a fine piece of ginge.

Do you mean the one from Constantinople, Jerusalem , Antioch, or Alexandria?

My husband, who doesn't even speak French, nonetheless summed up my feelings about Foucault perfectly in Foucault's own language: "Je m'en Foucault." Indeed. I fucking hate postmodern theory....and I was trying to get a PhD in French once upon a time.

Dear Harry,

He's awfully careful to make sure people know he's straight. This isn't an ongoing refusal to be clear because it shouldn't be a thing, this is something else.

Sure. You know "lots of Black people". That's why you spend your days on Gawker trolling every article about Black people with racist comments.

Ain't no negroes "full African", but we're all Black. They say one drop is all you need. But if you require further proof I invite you to kiss my juicy Black ass.

"I'll have a venti black medium roast, please.

The farts will be there... they'll just smell of Spring Rain.