Good thing no one asked you.

Don't fuck with Retta OR Donna Meagle.

I have lived in Virginia for 20 years and never knew this was a thing. Pretty cool, except for in a case like this. One question what does the square on the map represent? Clearly that whole area cannot be the NQRZ, I have used a cellphone in both Harrisburg and Staunton.

I mean, I guess. My stance is that it's not my job to teach you how to be a decent human being. And as a Black woman I am already going to through so much shit i don't need to worry about that from my partner as well. I don't think its healthy, thats all.

They need to be in a position to punch the guys in the nose if they misbehave.

The only way to stop a good guy who plans to rape is a good right hook? Wayne LaPierre he is not. But, yes, the "only" way is a good punch to the nose from a sober woman. If only the fact that this is too absurd to pass the laugh test meant that no one would believe it.

WE NEED TO TALK because ladies ALWAYS need to talk, amiright?? Do they ever stop talking? Hahahaha this is comic gold you guys.

[I am engaging in an internet campaign to spread kindness. I'd like to make the following modest suggestion to advertisers.]

Call me unromantic but I don't get this recent trend of putting locks on bridges to express your love for someone. It just seems stupid. But thats just me.

This is precisely why women are scared of standing up for themselves when being cat called. Not only can harassers go ballistic like this, but they also, usually, cowardly "travel" in large packs.

I get what you're saying, but I think that men who harass women know that they are harassing women. Just a couple of weeks ago I was attending a comic con with my husband and had a random guy come up to me (in costume—it was fantastic) to tell me that I looked cute in my outfit. I thanked him for the compliment and…

Except that your third paragraph presupposes that we can tell people who won't take a cue apart from people who will, before giving the cues.

This means so much to me. Thank you.

If I ever get to have a dinner party with Ina, I will probably cry and then tattoo a montage of the evening across my back.

I have never confronted them. I have not considered naming them. I don't even know all their names. And frankly, I never want to speak the names I do know again. When I even think of their names, I feel like puking. Fuck them. They don't deserve the sound of their names falling out of my mouth.

I am excited to visit UND. I have never been there. I don't always stay focused and positive. This week, hell, this year has been rough. But I do try to remember that there is work left to be done and so we don't have the luxury of wallowing. More realistically, I allow myself my vices and ways of relaxing, and I also…

Not a question, but I just wanted to let you know how many young women, including myself, appreciate the space you've created for intersectionality and imperfections in feminism.

Roxane, totally. We can become better feminists by holding ourselves to higher standards. We can speak up instead of staying silent. We can deny ourselves the pleasures we know are problematic. We have to be willing to make hard choices to become better feminists.

Hello Ms. Gay/Roxane, I found your work "Bad Feminist" to be really quite enlightening.