I swear to fucking god. She nailed it. The details are hers. But the omnipresence of the abuser - how it feels like a physical presence in the room - at work, in bed, on a date, at the market. I had this exact sensation just last Thursday and I'm so used to it, so attuned to it, it is just a part of my life. Years of…

So, where SHOULD you put your makeup on, if not the bathroom? It's where I've always put mine on.

I am in awe of people with mad contouring skills. The few times I've attempted it, I look like I rubbed dirt all over my face. I'm fairly competent at applying basic makeup, but anything more involved than concealer, blush, mascara, etc. it's like I'm a 5 year old who was left unattended near the MAC counter.

Sooo, to to fight the patriarchy, he wants you modify your life around what a guy thinks is best for you? Yeah, not sure your boyfriend thought that one through.

Argh, the ridiculous complaint that women "trick" men with our appearance infuriates me. Do they think a woman is a product and feel screwed over wrt the quality? Because that's how that complaint sounds.

can you point out to him that if he hates your makeup, and you wear it anyway, then it obviously isn't about pleasing men?

I've been getting into arguments with my husband lately about makeup. He keeps insisting that makeup is evil and that I'm succumbing to the patriarchy or something by putting it on and that the ONLY reason women wear makeup is to please men. I adore my husband, he is a great guy.. but this shit pisses me off SO MUCH.…

Contouring seriously needs to be left to the professionals. I'm seeing terrible contouring everywhere now and it is not good.

She must have some fucking STORIES.

I have actually heard this exact sentence many, many times. Most recently from Katy Perry and Lady Gaga. Two women who would be nowhere without feminism, who embody the strength of women....claim to "not be feminists." Sigh.

Y'all. He is my best friend's neighbor. She sees him on the bus, and he's either wearing this shirt or a pirate shirt and a medallion.

I want to know what he does think is racist. Seriously, if disliking black people and keeping the "purity" of your race isn't racist, what the hell is?

Iron, in DC!

I'm not a feminist, but I'd like to encourage everyone to treat women as equal members of society and provide them with exactly the same opportunities and rights that are available to men; all while fostering a society of mutual respect and freedom to exercise opinions and options.

This dude's recurring night terror:

Nothing racist.

I'm not a pirate, but [masturbate furiously to the movie Pirates of the Caribbean]

Is it just me or is this guy just a little too obsessed with black penises?

They think about our boobs more than we do too :-/

A) Those costumes are awesome