What’s wrong with this?

The song has aged like fine wine, but the video looks ridiculous. Except for the part where she’s covered in gold paint, which I love, it’s one of those videos that’s a victim of a technology that was probably revolutionary at the time (the water splashing all over), but now looks like a child drew it with crayons.…

It meets the technical definition of sexual abuse. It’s including the child in a sexual situation. Even if he’s unaware of it, it can still be abuse. Not all abuse causes harm to the victim but that doesn’t make it not abuse.

honestly it’s because we don’t want to call out our parent for being “weak” or make them ashamed or we feel like it’s not our place to speak. I mean that’s the biggest reason I never said anything for the longest time. Even now I’m only speaking about it because I’m anonymous and have only really spoken about it to…

Besides my feeling that it’s just an icky, boundary-crossing thing to do, there’s the fact that the photo is now out there for Weiner’s son to see. If the kid hasn’t seen it already, he sure will someday. Imagine seeing photo evidence that your dad was sexting other women (while married to your mother!), sporting an…

My drunken stepfather literally pulled a gun on my mom and cut the battery wires to her car and luckily the cops were able to be called that night. She still went back to him after that. She eventually left but unless you’ve been there it’s hard to understand what kind of a hold an abuser can have on someone. …

Ex women’s shelter volunteer here, THIS.

One of my best friends left her husband with her small child when he beat the shit out of her. She called 911 while speeding away in her car with her child in the backseat. A few hours later I was with her, and it took me 7 hours to convince her to call the police back with the details so that they would criminally…

And if he does get worse and take actions that would constitute endangering a child or child neglect or what have you then I’ll rejudge him as a parent.

My best friend is an A&E doctor, I’ve heard it all. As long as the child didn’t wake up, this is not so bad. But the thing is, people like Weiner get bolder and bolder. It wouldn’t be long before worse would be happening.

Can you explain why being next to the child while he does it makes it wronger? I mean, it sounds just like a symbolic problem.

Does that go to his parenting ability? I mean, it’s not like the child saw it.

Huma. Honey. He’s not good for you. He’s not good for your son. You haven’t failed, I promise. You are doing what is best for your family. Don’t let him back in.

I lived in Beijing for a year in 2006 and black people were universally just treated awfully. The only people they talked more shit about were the Japanese.

The fact that this thread almost immediately turned into a discussion of how much better Jessica Simpson’s brand is than Ivanka’s shitty brand is probably something that would annoy the shit out of the Trumps. Well done people.

Don’t take this at all as an endorsement of the CPD or a disagreement with your comment, because I agree: this took way too long and the absolutely least that could have been done. But I can see why Williams stressed this.

Goopy is oddly self aware of her snobbery, but gives no fucks and just keeps on steaming her vagina for her golden dildo.

Her daddy’s all like, “Who? I don’t know her.”

So cute when they’re babies!