“Sex has risks for women that it simply doesn’t have for men, from pregnancy to an increased risk of sexually-transmitted infections and sexual assault to old-fashioned slut-shaming” This was 100% the most important thing said and I’m kind of blown away.

Advice Columnist to Advice Columnist, I just want to say that this was spectacular. Really beautifully done on both questions, but especially the first one.

Don’t be a racist shithead.

“allows those grievances to fade instead of both of you storing them like passive aggressive squirrels stockpiling hate-nuts for the winter.”

Lines like this are why I read this column.

Another fantastic article, doctor. Thank you! I always look forward to reading your work, both here and on your site! Please never stop :)

I assume by “this article” you mean “this series”? Because it’s not the same article every time you know.

I appreciate your articles, Dr. Nerdlove. Thanks again for your insight and thoughtful responses to folks’ relationship issues.

Alas! Brovahkiin hath spurned both your advice and thy website! How shall we face the morrow? There is naught but to trudge onward, into the future, without the sweet knowledge of his approval to warm our souls on cold lonely nights. A plague of disrespect is upon us, Gentle NerdLove. I fear we may never see the light…

Yeah it was. He literally says “we have always had a bad sex life”