DON’T TELL YOUR GIRLFRIEND THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

People who double down after being asked to stop? Assholes.

You sound like a cool dude. The thing is nobody will ever learn that if you go into meeting anybody with the attitude “Like what woman would ever find me attractive”. You have to try and see. The doctor is right, you have to give yourself a chance.

You need new friends, dude. That shit aint helpful.

Ok, with that knee-jerk reaction out of the way, have you considered just cutting them off for a while? I’ve had friends that act like your friends do when you ask them to knock it off, and eventually my response was to stop talking to them until they understood that…

I do about 3 times a week. I’m also a 12 year breakdancing veteran and am consistently out somewhere dancing. I literally have all the tools needed to be successful with women but I’m so lost inside my head that Ive convinced myself that no one cares. Had a mentally abusive ex and 6 years of negativity took its toll.…

The thing that makes me sad about posts like yours is that so many guys appear to think of women as these alien things - when ultimately we are PEOPLE, just like you. If you have close and warm friendships with men, you can have a relationship with a woman. Most of us are not looking for the World’s Most Interesting…

This. I’m probably biased as I’m a total chubby chaser but I’ve had some fantastic sex with bigger people, and some shitty sex with built/skinny people.

Man this hits me hard. I’m in an extremely similar situation to this guy; been single for almost 10 years cause every girl I try to get with isn’t physically attracted to me, and it’s gotten to me hard. But i feel like i can follow this advice too and maybe get back on track to being a happier, better person.

1. Forgive Yourself

Thanks Dr. Nerdlove. I've always enjoyed reading these columns and this one hit home quite a bit.

There’s nothing at all wrong with being single, I’m much happier by myself than when I’m in a relationship.

This is a really great article

Man, I feel so bad for this guy. he’s perfect in every way. Wish I could be friends with him and just get him to feel better about all this. I can relate to so many things in his life but I’ve just been luckier than he has been and I made it out. I feel for you man, don’t give up, you’re doing great

So... You’re trolling the comments for an article where people are genuinely trying to give advice and help out anyone that may be going through similar issues? Classy.

Beating the othre guy up? Holy crap! What are you? Some mobster from Jersey?

AG, stay away!