As someone with basically no success with women whatsover, I'm just gonna say - the attitude demonstrated in this comment is exactly why you're not getting any. But no, go ahead and be super-fixated and needy, I'm sure that will lead to great success with women and they won't find you to be the whiny, self-righteous…

...or, in my friend's case, basically laugh in her face then spend the next 6+ months calling her everyday and stalking her because she "just didn't realize yet how much she loved him". He also got really close to sexually assaulting her.

I didn't even think about that until I hit Publish.

I missed those two words! I'm talking from experience because I dated some ugly as sin guys but have a Je ne sais quoi aura that makes you melt in a heartbeat. And then there's some who are good looking, well-off-for-life guys who just can't stop whining. I mean, the latter look like they can have everything but love…

They're really not very many rules at all, I could be WAAAAYYY more picky. I feel the main points I'm making are extremely reasonable.

Sara: Are you saying I'm interesting?

This seems like pretty much every story I have heard from my girlfriends. Several times I have been out with my lady friends and been used as a stand in boyfriend as a way for them to easily opt-out. Many times the guys wont take the hint until they realize another man might be in the picture. It is almost as if they…

I really appreciate your acknowledging that a lot of the reason many women don't give a firm "no thanks" is that some men react very badly to that. It isn't just that it's easier to say "hm, not right now, I'm busy" and risk some passive aggression than it is to say "I'm not interested" and get actual aggression.

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She may have been into him originally and truly WASN'T leading him on, but then he went and did something off putting and she lost interest. Views on people can change. She may have found out later that she just wasn't into him after all and wanted to let him down easily by making him "get the hint".

As a 22 year old woman, Who is interested in everything... nerdy? (I dunno how to put it. basically I'm trying to say I'm not one of those judgy yoga pants white girl bitches who is all "OMG".) I'll give some advice. I hope I speak for most women here when I say, Confidence is one of the sexiest things. (Followed…

If you are dating online, never wait a month before going on a first date. IMHO the more you chat online without meeting the person, the less of a chance of romance. It's best to keep the talking to a minimum and set up a live in-person date, to a coffee shop or non threatening venue, as soon as possible. If she likes…

For future reference don't refer to women as 'females'. The only reason you would use 'females' is if you are hosting an Animal Planet documentary - using it to describe human women is derogatory and places them beneath you and it PISSES US OFF.

I hope to Christ that someone refers to me as an "electrifying motherfucker"

One of my favorite ways of getting a woman interested in texting me is to drop a little playful intrigue - something to bait her into wanting to text back. Sometimes it's something silly like "Hey, you just popped into my head, so I wanted to say 'hi'. And stay out of my head," or "Hey, $NAME, I think I just saw your…

But in the case of the woman you met at the convention: dude. She recognized you, struck up a conversation with you and gave you her number. She couldn't really give you a clearer sign that she wants to hear from you again if she wrote it out on poster board and marched with it outside your house.

Never flip out on the person who's flaking on you. Never make a facebook post about it. Never tweet about it. Nothing good can ever come of it. It just makes you look bad and needy. If someone keeps flaking on you just move on. They don't owe you anything. By confronting them on it, by blowing up, by saying some…

jesus christ, that first letter. i've defriended so many people who pull that passive-aggressive status shit on facebook that i forgot how nauseating it is when expertly done

Wow, bitter, much? haha. People like confidence because people don't want to have to spend time picking someone else up all the time, not because they want someone to do something for them.