It’s very easy to see the solution to someone else’s problem. It’s less clear when it’s your own, especially when someone is gaslighting you into thinking it’s your own fault. Some folks need the truth pointed out to them. Some need permission to do what’s they know they need to.

Not surprisingly, I’ve written about “just be yourself” before: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/01/just-be-yourself/

I very well might! Check my Twitter for future updates...

For a lot of folks, anything below 6' (5'11" in a stretch) is a self-proclaimed “too short”

Only in the sense that he’s not in a committed monogamous relationship. That ups the risk.

And, as has been pointed out, most sex workers - especially in countries where it’s legal - tend to be far better about testing and protection than others.

Hopefully he gets tested regularly, regardless, as all sexually active people should.

How can he be a pirate when he’s doing the ninja run?

On Twitter, a critic said, “Eh, sexual assault is wrong, but let’s keep toxic ideology out of my competitive fighting game, yeah?”

It’s way the hell easier to see why you failed, because the factors tend to be much more obvious and easily replicable.

BPAL also has a surprisingly sizable underground trading network for people who ordered scents but discovered one or two of them didn’t work for them. So if you (general you) order one and discover that you don’t like the scent, there’re folks out there who’ll cheerfully trade you for it.

It’s an ooooold-ass joke.

What did the Buddhist monk say to the hotdog vendor?
“Make me one with everything.”

Whole Foods usually carries them in the skin-care section. You can also frequently find them at various health-food stores and the like.

It’s like this.

And that.

And this.

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That you know of...

Honestly, I get mine at Whole Foods. There are small trial sizes, and frequently open samples that let you smell them first.

Yes. To people who are only interested in money.

(That was a joke, folks...)