And also to quote Henry Ford: “Whether you think you can or you can’t - you’re right.” The more you insist that you’re going to be Forever Alone, the more right you are.

Or you could *do* something about it.

So where DO you go to be reminded?

Still wondering why someone posts the exact same question every week.

Because the problem isn’t the dude’s body, it’s his head. Even if he had the body of an Olympic athlete, he would still be having all the same issues he’s currently having, just with different sized clothing.

It can vary, depending on a host of issues - not the least of which being publishing schedule and the sheer volume of mail I get on a daily basis.

Oh, it’s been discussed...

That’s not her ex. That’s an old, platonic friend who was no longer in her life because he couldn’t handle having feelings for her. It’s not unreasonable to miss your friends, even if they left you in less than perfect circumstances.

My next column will be Trevor answering people’s sex questions.

Thanks for the pageviews!

The universe provides.

A) More than you’d think.

B) Many more if dudes didn’t treat virginity as something shameful and something to be gotten rid of as soon as humanly possible.

Especially if said virgins feel that it’s ok to lie to get what they want regardless of what the other person wants.

Of course. Although unless you roll a natural 20, he’s GOING to push you into the pterodactyl.

I say thee NEIGH!

It’s a doctorate in metaphysics from the Universal Life Church. So now I’m a real fake doc!

If you’re down to splitting hairs about whether or not it’s cool for him to have misled her, knowing that being a virgin was a dealbreaker, then you know that if he’d been up front, she wouldn’t have slept with him. Whether you think her arbitrary rules are stupid or not, they’re her rules and she’s entitled to have…

There’s a difference between a partner being dominant in bed and trying to bang when she’s not in the mood and persistently ignoring the “Not now I’m busy” that eventually becomes “FUCK OFF already!”

While yes, I agree that one’s sexual history is nobody’s business, there is that whole “lying about it because he knew she didn’t want to be somebody’s first and wouldn’t have slept with him if she knew” part.

Being a virgin: Not a problem. Rock on.
Lying to somebody so you can get what you want regardless of their…

What qualifies you to answer question like this?