You’re right. It’s just so... tempting when they show their own ass.
You’re right. It’s just so... tempting when they show their own ass.
we found the incel!
There is an enormous burden on marginalized populations to advocate and claw and fight for themselves so they can prove themselves worthy of being treated *the same* as white men. Even collective action, as opposed to each woman fighting individually for her own coin, is not as fruitful as power structures making…
Get fucked. You and every #notallmen, equivocating, mansplaining, but-I-have-female-friends incel trash. You’re gross and women see right through you.
That tracks with a normal bell curve.
Why would I need to detail my fucking life to you? Why would those details matter or more to the point, how would they get you to believe my lived experience? Or actually, how would they make you see that this isn’t an isolated experience but is instead a pattern of men preserving and advancing the patriarchy?
She is mediocre at best, which makes it kind of... endearing? It’s probably the most average/relatable thing about being the child of mega-celebrities.
Hey, checking on you and sending lots of warm thoughts your way.
This dipshit doesn’t get it. He’s going to “not all men” us until he’s blue in the face because it’s much easier, I guess, to believe in the general pure intent of all men over the lived experience of most women.
It’s you! It’s literally you! It’s depressing and sad that you felt compelled to vomit a whole fucking treatise to defend men’s behavior INSTEAD OF JUST BELIEVING MY LIVED EXPERIENCE. You’re truly a garbage person and I feel deeply and wholly sorry for any woman that has to deal with you in any way. Gross. You’re…
Do you think that if you just mansplain/expand on your initial faulty premises and logic that you’ll just manifest being right? You are repeatedly trying to dismiss my experience and similar experiences by gaslighting me into “it’s not what you think.” I don’t “feel” differently, it IS different. And your refusal to…
Not expecting this to make a dent, but let us explain: We don’t want to be invited because we want to talk about football. We want to be invited because you guys make work decisions, close business deals, and lay out career pathways in the middle of talking about football. That’s why we need to be there and invited.
I love it when men derail a thing that affects women in business by talking up that one time it happened to “Peter” like it’s not a systemic thing that’s very much by design.
So what you’re saying is that you don’t want people who advocate for themselves, graduated at the very top of their class, and aren’t afraid to speak truth to power? I’m glad you won’t hire her, you sound like an absolute garbage monster to work for.
Umm, shouldn’t it be you, the adult, with a career and knowledge and experience and power, to be the one to direct your frustration at the people with the purse strings? This HS valedictorian, and the 160 girls you’re responsible for... they’re children. They shouldn’t have to beg and plead and advocate for themselves…
You know, when enough women on a thread reply with “true” or “same”, you might want to consider that a whole lot og lived experiences are no longer anecdotal. You think she’s the only woman who had to feign interest in some bullshit dude thing to keep from being excluded?
Do you find it at all odd, or terrible, that you keep finding ways to excuse behavior that clearly harms women in business settings? You’re out here finding every excuse for why this was ok like it’s a unique thing that has only happened to me and isn’t echoed as a sentiment by multiple women in these very comments.
Nah. That’s a classic dude copout and at this stage of my life and career, I know better. At some point, stupidity (or carelessness, or thoughtlessness) does, in fact, equal malice. It’s not as overt as
let’s make sure we don’t invite Dorothy, it’s looking around and seeing every person on your team except for Dorothy…
Got the same advice in law school, including advice to learn how to golf.
Yeahhhhhh, no. They froze me out for a reason, forcing them to invite me wasn’t going to solve the all-bro problem.