I’m gonna be that annoying “Euro” (not from there but lived there half my life) and point out that Americans as a society are really bad at talking about sex. That’s at least a part of the problem of why it’s been so hard to find a workable policy in universities and colleges and you’re stuck with Title IX. And no,…

Ha. Same.

LOL yes, I was being hyperbolic. Obviously.

I guess I’ve been “raped” many times because I’ve had sex plenty of times without anyone asking me beforehand if I specifically wanted to have sex. I think you just know when someone wants to have sex with you and you don’t need to specifically say it or have them sign in the dotted lines It’s a combination of things,…

I agree. That would just be lazy. And “problematic”. And he’d be exercising his white privilege. And cultural appropriation by choosing a traditionally Japanese method of suicide.

So what? He should be hanged and quartered and have his tongue cut out so he can’t ever say anything offensive ever again? I mean, he apologized. At what point do we accept that people fuck up, accept the apology and move the fuck on? Or do you never move on and write someone off forever for having some shitty lyrics…

Yes. Fundies.

I want to know who the 40% of people are who don’t think that nodding, undressing and getting a condom constitute consent. I mean, do you need me to write in on the wall in giant letters and scream yes at the top of my lungs (I usually wait to scream ‘yes’ until during sex - if he’s good)?

There’s no such thing as a “decent apology” on Jezebel. He could commit sepuku and apologise to every woman on the planet and someone here would still think it wasn’t enough, that he didn’t really mean it and that he wasn’t taking responsibility. I don’t even know who this guy is but whatever, so he has a couple of…

Sorry, that’s just sad. Swimming in the ocean is one of life’s greatest pleasures. And I don’t go to crowded beaches either. There’s more piss in a pool anyway. But even so, I think life’s too short to be so precious and squeamish about stuff. But whatever, your loss.

Holy crap. That’s at least 110 people who need therapy to get over their irrational fears.

Thank you.

Or maybe it’s just because she did a pretty good job on her hair? As was pointed out by Jezebel’s own Kara Brown, or are you saying she’s a self-loathing black woman?

Thank you. This can’t be repeated ebough. People have no fucking clue what Hispanic even means.

Phobias are by definition irrational. That’s why you usually work toward overcoming them, rather than embracing them and getting defensive and nonsensical when people point out that they’re irrational.

Perhaps but that doesn’t answer my question.

And even as a civil case, it was ridiculous. The verdict is really strangely worded but ultimately common sense prevailed.

Sorry, but this will not end well. I’m sure you have a great marriage but Lark Voorhies didn’t just meet her husband on facebook, he’s significantly younger and has a rap sheet a mile long and is wanted in, I believe, Arizona. There’s also the fact that her mother went public with the news that Lark had been diagnosed…

You’re right, it doesn’t affect me. It is however completely fucking irrational. You should stay home forever because if you go outside, you could get run over by a car.

Overkill much?