Wait, how do 13 people agree with you that it’s a good idea to never swim in the ocean because shark attacks? Wtf?

She doesn’t need to tell them exactly what it’s for but if she’s changing the appointment that had been previously agreed without any notice, she’d better at least say that it’s because it’s a medical emergency. If they still won’t allow an exception, they’re assholes.

Unless she was a terrible employee and this was the last straw, who the hell fires someone over one incident? Especially one involving a potential medical emergency? I mean, even if you are a total asshole, who wants to go through the hassle of hiring and training a new employee?

Cats can tell too. They just don't care.

Maybe but I think they’re bullshit. Hair Harold Caballeros something is wrong or unethical doesn’t make it illegal and also, I don’t believe anyone but the 2 people in a marriage can break up a marriage. In this case the husband chose to cheat, he’s the one who took the vows and broke them. Who he cheated with is…

The actual Elie Tahari stuff that he designs is great and really good quality. The just Tahari stuff that is licensed and designed and made by other companies is nowhere near as nice and way overpriced for the quality.

Yeah but the husband gave her the money so, again, he’s the one responsible here, not her.

I think she’s a narcissist and a liar and basically a monster borne out of the worst of the identity politics obsessed academic left. It wasn’t enough for her to just think a certain way because her whiteness made it “inauthentic” in her mind, so she had to pretend to be a woman of color to make herself more…

It’s not the fucking Oppression Olympics. How about you stop belittling people’s experiences just because other people have it worse?

True. Unfortunately she’s not the only asshole around here who constantly engages in oppression Olympics style bullshit.

Rachel Dolezal, is that you?

You're just as bad as the Dolezal woman, minus the masquerading as an other race bit (I hope).

This Dolezal woman is starting to sound like the worst of the identity obsessed rad fems on Jez and elsewhere, the really humourless ones with massive chips on their shoulders obsessed with white privilege, multiplied by 10.

Then take it up with your husband, not the woman he put his dick into.

Yeah. But cheating shouldn’t be a crime, it shouldn’t ever make it to court unless it’s a divorce court. And in any case, she should have gone after her husband, but the woman he cheated with.

My whole sexual experience, from the very beginning, has been the total opposite. Guys went down on me before we had sex but blow jobs happened after. I was also on the other side of the Atlantic so there's definitely something to the cultural aspect.

I hope you’re really young this is all due to inexperience but as Dan Savage would say: DTMFA (dump the motherfucker already). What he means by “I’m rarely in the mood to go down on you” is “I’m rarely in the mood to give you pleasure when we have sex and it’s all about me”. There are better men out there, go find…

I spent my formative years in french speaking Europe and that was also where I first had sex and this is exactly how I feel about oral sex as well, or at least about blow jobs specifically. I’ve very rarely slept with a European guy who didn’t go down on me fairly early in the game. I had dated Americans before but…

Seriously. Poor delicate little flowers. Their lives will be ruined from hearing their neighbours fuck at night.

Is that number lower or higher than the rate of non college women who are assaulted? Not that campus rapes aren’t important but it would be useful to see how that number compares with the rate of non college women who are assaulted. Otherwise it kind of gives the impression that women are more at risk at college than…