Never be entirely dependent on any one person or situation, ever.

Agreed. The sad thing is, I will still watch it.

Last time you did this, Kara, you broke Kinja.

As an adoptee, I would love to get my DNA analyzed.

Chering is caring.

I’m pretty sure Martin Luther King Jr. would say that ALL actors matter.

Maybe He Let Jaden Smith Write His Posts, Because He Tweets Like This And It’s Irritating AF.

I guess I’m just really evolved because I don’t see color...so.....Jennifer Lawrence’s skin is the same as any other woman. I’m as happy for her as i’d be for any other actress because I don’t see color. It’s actually racist of Spike Lee to point out that black actors and artists haven’t been nominated because it…

tummy rolls are your body’s way of saying “i love you and i want you to be able to entertain yourself by playing belly bongos”

Tummies are like reverse elbows and knees in that they just fold and stuff when not in an upright position, thus rolls. Realizing that made me feel great.

I don’t think the author is racist, necessarily. The book is written by a woman of color, illustrated by a black woman, and edited by a black woman who won the Coretta Scott King prize for a book she herself wrote in 2013. I agree that the book is problematic, but I would hesitate to call its makers racist.

To pretend that slaves were never happy or never had a good day or never smiled is to deny them a basic part of their humanity. That some were friendly with or even loved their masters is undeniable.

excited about the xojane “It Happened to Me” post one of these girls will write in 15 years.

Ok but can we talk about what a dick David Foster is?? That comment about Ken having nicer breasts than post-op Yolanda? Also, she said something about their nuptials not including him caring for her while sick... Um “in sickness and in health,” no? He is the WORST.

Erika gives me life every Tuesday night.

Just make sure to leave Kandi’s Mom at home. I honestly can’t think of a reality character who I dislike more in the long, long history of my shitty TV habit.

Erika is my new favorite housewife of all time. I bow down qween.

I was thinking the same thing. My “affection” for Bethenny has been steadily declining and I think this might be the abyss. Or, as a nod to her “rimjob” jokes, the bowels.