Yeah, you can decide that you don’t care where your name came from — it’s yours now, even if you got it because kids get the same name as their dad under patriarchal traditions.

Well, exactly. That’s kind of my point.

What’s the non-sexist choice in a sexist context, tho?

I know a guy who took his wife’s name. It doesn’t seem to have robbed him of his manhood, though that may be a relative measure.

It normally wouldn’t matter at all, but for this particular book, removing the four-letter words really does seem like bowdlerizing.

“I’m not even saying I killed them.”

Is that Blue Steel nonsense seriously his mugshot? Oh, lord.

It’s pretty much the same.

You have attacked a person online.

Here’s hoping you don’t get bit in the eyeball by an animal you’ve sentimentalized as a substitute “child”.

As a gay man I’m probably not the best judge of that, but the giant varnished nails the women usually have in lesbian porn (well, all porn really) make it hard for me to see those scenes as genuinely fun for anybody.

Unfortunately, I don’t think I have anything to thank you for in return.

It doesn’t seem that way to me.

It’s nice to be a generous lover.

The same actions do not have the same meaning in a context of inequality.

This suggests the question: Do straight women get off on lesbian porn way more than straight guys get off on gay porn — or are lesbians and bi women way more likely than straight women to search for porn online?

This might seem like a goofy story, but at roots it’s a pretty basic civil rights violation.

I’d feel better about him than Hillary.

tug me?

lol at Macklemore having a big rock-star-style drug problem ... with weed.