No. I will not. I will wear a regular hair elastic because I am not an animal. We did not evolve from the sludge to wear scrunchies.

I cut off all my hair.

Sounds like someone is fulfilling the requirements of their 12 step program.

I am a bleeding heart liberal and a lifelong Democrat, but does anyone else think that Obama care is kind of bullshit?

I am happy that they've expanded Medicaid, but it's so frustrating that the law does not provide a tax subsidy for those in the very middle class. Last year I paid almost 10% of my income on health…

You guys Snap Judgement on NPR is doing a show tonight full of spooky ghost stories and I am getting totally entertained and creeped out all by myself in my apartment right now! I kind of love spooky stories. http://snapjudgment.org

lyk dis if u cry evrytime

Don't know if he's already vying, but if not I hope he takes this as a cue to start. Great idea!

Theory - Bill Hader is vying to be his generation's Tom Hanks. Discuss.

well after reading all the threading about this I don't think you should sever ties completely. He seems to be a bit immature and not ready for a serious relationship. Keep him as a friend or an occasional guy on the side (if you like that sort of thing) but look for a guy that will give you the type of relationship…

Take it from Diana, and cut him loose!

Invent a time machine and go back and kick his ass to the curb YESTERDAY.

Don't make someone your first option when you know you're only their second, or third, or whatever. Cut ties and move on.

Just curious. How does the "fall out of touch" part happen? Were you guys dating/in a relationship before the falling out of touch? If so, how does communication even break down like that to the point he doesn't want you to cut ties with him? I'm terribly confused as to the entire sequence. Sorry.

Aww. He'd be sooooooo sad if you weren't around to screw in six weeks when he gets tired of the current woman he's leading on. Poor baby.

Ya, it seems like you are invested in him. You need to just cut ties doll. But be honest ya know? Tell him you think he's great but that you want to be a first choice and not a what if. Then seriously close the door. No internet stalking, no lurking his FB feed. If he wants to be with you he will and if not you…

he's gotta go.

It totally does, nothing is lamer than falling for someone who is unavailable except for the occasional ego boost and you know it and you still put up with it. We are better than that!

I refer to these kinds of guys as Cake and Pie. They can't decide which one they want, so they try to have both. Tell him if he's going to choose cake, then he doesn't get to have any pie.