Did you minor in smugness?

I'm a blondie...been blond since forever. I usually get foils—two different shades of blonde. Once my hair dresser decided to do...blocking(?), and did my hair in alternating blonde and brown stripes. The stripes near my face were brown. I am in my fifties (and this was only about five years ago). I was so traumatized…

I let a friend do the same, except red. She was in school but had been an apprentice for years, so really knew what she was doing. However, the teacher DID NOT. She did what the teacher told her to do, knowing it was wrong and telling me so. I ended up freaking copper orange. Thankfully it was glaze so it faded fairly…

Coming in late and pissed off. The expression: No good deed goes unpunished. I'm being punished big time for doing a good deed. A friend just went through a bad breakup, he ended up with everything, she walked away with nothing, her choice, she could have stayed and fought but chose to leave. He wasn't an abuser,…

Hi Jezzies. I'm contemplating ending a friendship. I've known M for about ten years now, having met her through a (now ex-)boyfriend. M and I don't have very much in common., but we've managed to keep a close friendship going because we sort of balance each other out. I moved away about three years ago for grad…

For my 8th grade dance, the lady who altered my dress used the extra (midnight blue and black) fabric to make a matching scrunchie. I wore it to the dance with a high ponytail. I feel that I should post a photo as proof that the #bringbackourscrunchies movement is dangerous.

Does Miley Cyrus do anything but simulate fellatio?

Hey y'all lovely people, I'm always here self-pitying myself and asking for advice you guys can't possibly have cause I present my issues in a super bias way. Anyway, guess what? here i am at it again.

It's a him, Mario!

Hear hear, we have this debate monthly and it is so tiresome and predictable. The same exact comments and responses are given each time;

Not all exes make great friends. If seeing A with someone else upsets you, block that stuff! It sounds like you need more time before you are ready to renew those friendships without putting yourself through needless emotional torture.

Ugh. I haven't had anything that upsetting. But I do have the problem of finding dudes who are really into me and are perfectly great gentlemen, but who I just don't feel anything toward or finding guys I'm super into who suddenly decide they're too busy for relationships (IE, not into me enough to find the time to be…

Has anyone ever been on an online date that was soul-suckingly depressing? I've been on plenty of dates with jerks, sleazes, liars, etc. but just ran across a new type of sad online date. This one guy had been checking out and sent me a couple of "hi" notes but because he didn't put that much in his profile I never…

I posted last night about being this close to accepting a new job in a new place. However, it seems as though my current place of employment is already in the process of rehiring me. I have a meeting tomorrow with the principal and a few assistant principals about my teaching assignment for next year.

You guise! I hit my head really hard and have been recovering from a concussion, which has meant that instead of working on the art I've been making on the ceiling (can't stand on a chair; balance is still recovering) I've had more time to work on this project (the spot in the center is exactly my eye level) and it…

HOW DARE YOU

I have always felt a strong and emotional connection to members of the LGBTQ community. It was actually a huge disappointment for me, when I came of age and realized that I was sexually attracted to men. So when my sister came out, Ithought, Thank God, someone in this family can truly represent my passions and…

first, I'm so sorry you're struggling with these behaviors. They can truly suck the life out of you, so I'm glad you're reaching out here - do you have support at home?

(TW self harm, food)