No, she specifically mentioned his looking at her ass while cumming inside of her.

Have a great birthday!

What else would you call it, though?

I know this is a sex advice column, but that letter made no mention of his helping out around the house. That would be concerning to me. Assumption is not always a good thing.

I'm surprised Dan didn't tell the first letter writer to HELP OUT MORE AROUND THE HOUSE SO HIS WIFE WOULDN'T BE SO EXHAUSTED. He has a kid; he should know this.

Exactly. I'd have dumped him after the first time. My anus is an exit hole ONLY. Non-negotiable.

Yes, I need to learn to adjust my expectations, for one thing.

That's awesome.

Hey, I'm not alone! (I knew that already, but it's good to see your comment)

I've been sporadically thinking about getting back into the dating scene, but online dating just is filled with creeps these days, and I don't want to think that all the good guys are taken at my age (almost 40), but I also have a disability and I seem to be semi-attracted to the wrong type of people… oh well.

I'm glad I won't have to celebrate Mother's Day!

Ah, you're one of those people. I see.

Don't apologize for sharing your story. It tells us why you may be the way you are now, and shows us your past.

I still say you can do better than being best friends with your ex. His humor does not sound good to me. My ex had a similar kind of "humor," which he didn't seem to understand would hurt people because he had no empathy.

You can do better than being friends with an ex who cheated on you, and whom you cheated on. You can definitely do better than a passive-aggressive ex who makes comments about what you love.

I think that exes and best friends should be separate, especially with your other comments on the subject. If someone cheated on me, I would never talk to them again.

Why would you still talk to your ex?

That would be a good video, except everything seems to repeat while going on to the next line in the song…

There are some very rare times when I think it would be a good thing to be into BDSM, but those mostly coincide with my dental appointments.

I don't think there's anything wrong with having ungendered guts! :)