I'm bad at this, too. I can't help you.

Yeah, I've encountered two of them for some reason. Ex #1 claimed he had a weak stomach, and said that I should be proud of him for trying it for two minutes. Ex #2 blamed things on me.

I came across a bi girl online who proudly announced that she does rimjobs for her boyfriend. Good for her!

Never go ass to mouth!

It definitely was not.

He should have used quotation marks or something to indicate that those weren't his actual thoughts.

Yes, you should have.

Get out of this comment section. This is how this mentality gets perpetuated.

We're talking about RAPE victims! They didn't consent!

People use "slut" to describe RAPE victims?!

You can let it go with texts, but I myself would text with proper spelling and grammar. That's just me - I might not actually expect it of anyone else, unfortunately.

I guess we'll see. He's already tried to flatter me by saying that my description of myself "sounds beautiful," and that I have a "pretty" first name. I don't think either of those is accurate.

Yeah, and then there's all the slang that's popped up in the past few years which I just do not understand. That makes it exponentially more difficult.

Maybe not anything he says, but if it seems like an incomprehensible wall of test…

I'll have to think about that, thanks.

You can still take as much time as you need to think about your response through IM, so that's not an excuse. We're talking through Reddit messages, so that applies even more. I like people who think about what they say first, rather than just blurting it out to be quick.

I've told him how I feel about it. I'm not being unreasonable. If he isn't willing to make more of an effort, then I'm out even if I won't get many takers for my particular brand of insanity. (but we haven't even met as friends yet…)

Haha, I'll have to refresh my memory!

I also hate that excuse. He's been made aware of how I feel, even though I know that sending messages back and forth isn't a professional context. He's already said "Do I have to be 100% with you?" a couple of times in a week or so. I can deal with the occasional lack of punctuation, but if the lack of punctuation…

I am / was talking to a local guy who's 10 years younger than me. The generation gap is already making itself apparent, because he doesn't type with good punctuation all the time, and says it's informal and not like "English class." He says he understands that English and grammar is important to me, but he doesn't pay…