But what if I WANT to look like a pervert?

I've always been jealous of guys like you. I am definitely a grower. Like by at least 3x the size. It's like one of those little capsules you drop in the sink and suddenly it's a dinosaur.

Definitely more fun than d4s. Those things are entirely too pointy.

That's definitely not been my experience. There have been a few old trolls, but mostly it's been guys in their mid 20s and 30s, maybe early 40s. Not necessarily the place to go to find twinks, but there have been plenty of good looking guys there.

I can definitely see the appeal of by mail or email, especially if the news is not expected to go over well. Gives the parents a chance to process their feelings somewhat and saves the person coming out from the immediate knee-jerk reactions. No one says things in the moment that will damage the relationship long…

So I have a friend who is ridiculously socially clueless. Several years back she was introducing her new boyfriend to my wife and I and a few other friends for the first time. It just so happened to be a few days after my grandmother had died. Over the course of dinner at some point it came up that she had been…

I once hooked up with a guy who actually wanted me to use my teeth. And I don't mean a little bit either. He wanted me to full on bite his cock and scrape it with my teeth. I gave it the old college try for a bit but just the thought of what it must feel like was too much of a boner killer.

There are certain advantages to being a time lord is all I'm saying…

I'm jealous of your neighbors.

Absolutely. Only thing I'd add is to be sure to vet your counselor before you start. Most good ones will be willing to exchange an email or two before you see them to be sure you're a good fit. As much as a good counselor can be a huge help, one that has biases that are at odds with your situation can be quite…

I can relate there. We've worked things out since then, but Mrs stark and I went through a somewhat extended dry spell after our daughter was born. It just sorta stretched out and next thing we knew it had been months. It's surprising how much inertia just kinda keeps that going and makes it tough to talk about once…

But clearly the correct response was, "Then I guess I'm committing a rape/murder right now."

It's definitely not universal though. My wife and I were the first of our friends to have a kid and we pretty much just started having people over to our house more often. Kid goes to sleep pretty early and we can do the exact same thing we would have been doing with no kid. (Course we also have a group of friends…

Well, I mean it is pretty hard to pee while you're masturbating.

I guess that shouldn't be surprising, given that those muscles are basically made for pushing out. But yeah, I think I'd be a bit unnerved. And there'd be an approximately zero chance of me not making a joke about repelling the invaders.

I somehow skipped right over that bit. You're right. I was just thinking having the boyfriend watch is fairly mild.

Is it really that kinky? I mean it's not vanilla, but on the scale of kink that seems pretty low.

Kinda sad it even needs to be said, but yeah.

My experience is that fingers are the key even more than oral. Especially when used simultaneously with penetration. A bit of rubbing at the right time always seems to do the trick.

It's not really an issue one way or the other? Unless we're watching together, the porn I watch really has nothing to do with her. And happily she agrees about that.