Ah, maybe it's a sports thing then? That would place it solidly outside my experience.

Well hello. Nice to *mmmmfffff*

Is this really a thing that happens? Just from personal experience, I definitely messed around with a few friends in high school, but not in a way anyone involved would have described as "totally straight". And there were a few instances of watching porn together with straight friends while remaining fully clothed and…

I'm only one person, but I'm a bi guy married to a woman. I did find out much later that several of my wife's friends urged her not to date me when we first got together for no reason other than that I was bi. So I feel like that could have some relevance to the statistics (as in bi men either aren't out as bi and end…

I'm in a pretty similar situation (bi guy, married to a woman) and agree it's not really the same kind of closet. For me at least, I'm pretty open about being bi, but most of the people I work with don't know because unless I go out of my way to bring it up, it's just not going to come up naturally. My wife and I are…

I feel like there should be a minimum age requirement for beards. A lot of guys in their 30s and 40s look great with beards, but the number of 22 year olds who look anything but ridiculous with a beard/scruff is pretty damn small.

My wife and I were long distance for most of the first year and a half we were dating (when we were both going to college in cities a few hours drive apart) and we've been together 15 years now. I realize we're the exception, but it does work out sometimes.

Well that's a weight off my mind. Excuse me while I get back to indiscriminate sex with anyone who comes near me.

Goddamit! I've been doing bi wrong this whole time!

As a bi guy, my personal favorite (and I get this with surprising regularity) is that I'm just kidding myself and can't possibly be interested in women because of the way I dress. Because, yanno, only the gays have any fashion sense.

Yeah, porn preference is a pretty narrow way to view sexuality. Personally I'm pretty much only interested in gay porn but I'm bisexual enough to be happily married to a woman. For that matter the kind of guys I want to watch in porn are quite different than the kind I prefer to have sex with.

KY Derby?

Thanks! A google voice number sounds like a great idea. Don't know that I would have thought of that on my own. It's not like I'm super forthcoming with my last name, but I figure there's little harm in giving out my real first name.

The situation with my wife is a bit more complicated than I'm making it out to be, but even so, I'm definitely aware of how lucky I am.

I'm a mid-30s bi married guy. My wife and I have somewhat recently decided to open up our relationship. (It's gone pretty well so far.) I'm mostly interested in hooking up with guys on the side. One of the ground rules we have is that (for now at least) if we play around with anyone without the other present, it has…