make sure you don't read the comments on the Ariana Grande link. It was an accident. One I regret immensely.

nope but I've never had a MOC send me a first message of "I want to cum on your face."

Sorry to break it to you but this is pretty much every message I ever get from white dudes on Tinder.

I just want to share that this super hot 22 year old (I'm 29) I've been dating who lives in Atlanta is on a plane to come see me in Oakland at this very moment. Last time he came to visit it was for 12 hours 6 of which we were having mind blowing sex. I am going to recklessly bone this young man until the sun comes up…

this is awful. it's painful to watch.

My good friend simply cannot leave her phone alone, when we're out eating, out getting drinks, etc. We were watching a movie at my house last night (World War Z!) and there are all these important parts and she was just not looking at the screen. Like, why are you even here? Why are we pretending to watch a movie?…

my dad doing very dad-like dancing with my mom.

Gemini and Aquarii are a GREAT match.

USA Today included this gem of a quote in their article: Being a first-generation American from Ghana also helps him stand out, Cohen says. "He's not a typical African-American kid."

I was JUST commenting about this the other day with my BFF, I have been very lucky in dating damn attractive dudes with awesome, flawless bodies. I am myself a bit heavier than average but am tall, proportioned and have a great looking face. I always find it funny when women stress over having a perfect body in order…

So, I'm going to preface this by saying I think Kim K looks amazing which is why the following is so tragic...she posted this obviously photoshopped photo to instagram and it gives me the sads. I really just wish she would love herself exactly how she is and not alter every damn picture—its not necessary, she's…

I just came here for stabler.

Thanks! Yeah that commenter was an ass.

Mmmmmk? You good now?

This is tangentially related but have you heard of thechive.com? Some random dude approached me and my BFF at a restuarant last night and asked if we had heard about it. We just visited it this morning and it seems to be a cesspool of objectification (there's a subsection of the site called "mind the gap" which is…

I just came here to say....me and this guy I've been dating for like 7 weeks just made it official! I haven't had a legit "this is my boyfriend" relationship in a REAL long time. Lots of "oh, we're talking/dating/seeing each other." So I'm super stoked about the whole thing! He's amazing. It was his birthday today so…

I compliment people all the time. I think it is important to let people know you noticed they took the extra care to [insert thing they did to look/be nice]. The guy I'm dating right now is bringing up something interesting for me. I tell him he's sexy, handsome, etc. with no expectation for him to return the…

oh I'm so glad I'm not alone! Go in for toilet paper leave with three new outfits, some hair dye and a new travel mug. I'm in a personal recession right now—Target is a no-go because all sense of self-control just melts away into a puddle of bad financial decisions and end of the month calls to my mom for a stop-gap…

Sometimes I question my shallowness as well. But a hot, smart, supportive guy...vs. just a smart and supportive guy? COME NO COMPARISON.

Does he smoke a lot of weed and/or is it really big? A lot of time the really big, girthy ones don't get all the way hard.