Have you seen this interview of her? I now want to be besties with her.

Yup.  My ex-husband’s family has at least 3 generations of spousal and child abuse in their history, as well as abusing substances.  They could see bruises and knew that it was against the law, but to rat out one member for that behavior would mean that they would have to face the truth: that they are not a loving,…

It’s never the woman you know either. It’s never the opinionated, happy-seeming, confident woman being abused. It’s never the happy mother, the dedicated wife, the accomplished physician. That woman would never be abused. She would stop it. She would not put up with that kind of thing. Her upbringing didn’t…

This. They tried to put me in whatever the largest size they have is, which is like a 44DD. I’m a 36H. It is a size that exists! I wish American retailers would wake up and stop pretending cups stop at DD.

I hate padded bras, and really any “t-shirt” style bras. I used to shop exclusively at VS (sale bins only) and would buy 34Bs. I thought, for over a decade, that my boobs were fucked up because they always spilled over the cups in some spots but didn’t come close to filling them in other spots. The bras would always…

I wanted to try them but I'm stuck in "we don't carry your size" limbo. Literally every "inclusive" brand that has come out lately does not carry my size. And I don't feel my boobs are all that huge...

I’m aware. Not a fan of figleaves though cause their selection in my size is very limited. I prefer herroom for buying UK brands through a US site. Otherwise, I order direct from the UK despite shipping costs. Boux Ave has gotten a lot of my money lately, but I really like breakoutbras and brastop sales. Curvy Kate…

Yes to r/ABraThatFits! 

As a fellow large boobed lady, I found myself continuously scooping and replacing all day long until I hit 27 and was introduced to the concept of small band/huge cup. Fucking VS bullshit.

This so hard. One of their fitters tried to put me in a 38B and then another came in all “no honey” and put me in a 34DDD . . . I’d been wearing a 36DD since high school that I knew didn’t fit and took losing a tiny bit of weight, which included boob, as an opportunity for a fitting. I reluctantly tried on what they…

This is the fundamental ridiculousness of VS encapsulated.  Make bras that make tits look bigger, but don’t make bras for those with actual big tits.  

I hated Victoria’s Secret growing up but it was the only place to buy “cool” bras (cool for a 13 year old). But they were so bad at figuring out sizes and basically shamed me for having big boobs. It didn’t make sense to me because the models all seemed to have bigger boobs and they looked great! (It wasn’t until I…

This is Trump and his GOPsters finding the new wedge issue, after abortion ran out of steam. They’ll still use anti-abortion in select areas but no doubt their polling and focus groups have told them that anti-trans campaigns capture the anti-gay crowd, the anti-woman crowd, the we-control-your-privates crowd, and the…

They’re less about actually killing someone and putting their own asses on the line in a fight and more about walking around in tacticool body armor and intimidating the randos around them.

You know the type, loud as a motorbike, but wouldn’t bust a grape in a fruit fight...

It’s tragic how so many people don’t feel empathy until shit happens to them. I’m glad Kimmel’s turned a corner, but, like, did we have to wait until our democracy was on the brink of collapse to give a shit about more than half the population.  Cool cool cool.

I was thinking the other day about how there’s that trope of women going to the bathroom in packs when out, and why that is. I concluded that the general reason women go to the bathroom in groups is because it’s safer. It’s safer than leaving one tipsy friend to navigate a crowded bar and it’s safer than leaving one…

I worked at a university. The street from the campus to the parking lot was short but dimly lit. I was once followed by a car on the weekend (although it was daylight, it was deserted). A cab driver saw me trying to run away the car and he came to save me. After that I always had security escort me to the parking lot.…

My husband’s been on me a lot recently to walk the dog more in the evening (we have a huge yard where we play fetch and he gets morning walks, so don’t hate me, everyone) and one day I just snapped and was like: “I can’t! I can’t walk the dog in the evening, because it’s already getting dark, and if I walk him along…

my boyfriend is REALLY into music so he was helping me pick out a pair of good bluetooth earbuds the other day. he suggested the tiny little ones similar to airpods, and i told him i need the ones that are connected with a wire because i usually only wear one ear in while i’m going for a walk or run. he was so confused…

My husband had his car stolen the other month. It was in a low crime area, so he was dumbfounded that it was stolen. I drove my car down so I could pick him up and look for it. I took one look at the street he parked on (dark, construction with many concealed areas) and said “I would have never parked here.” He was…