Your dream is completely sane! I'm really hoping that I can get to a point in my career to where my SO (who is a man) can stay home and write his heart out and take care of our (prospective) kids. It's our dream too, even if the genders are reversed. I really hope you get there! Good luck. :D

This is something I struggled with when I was a chef. You are expected to preform perfectly, through hell, every day with little to no pay and certainly no benefits. The mantra of "Well, you'd do it if you *really* loved it" was repeated over and over in the kitchen. Everyone was competing to be the one with the most…

Not sure why people are being mean to you, but I probably would have laughed about the beer scanning. :D

I do this too! I laugh when I'm really nervous. If someone is yelling at me, I just have this overwhelming desire to laugh and smile but I'm actually scared. Reactions are weird, man.

Yeah, if we're counting those I've been 'proposed' to like 15 times. Bahaha.

I love you.

I had the same thought. Jesus, you're a felon if you have some pot on you. You're saying I can hack parts of people off and get out in two years, Da faq?

On one of his new single covers it looks like he's wearing a persons skin but it's really just an Asian Beauty Face mask. I love how he tries to be "a chaotic force" when there's people like ISIS running around. I throughly enjoy his antics but I agree it can be pretty tiresome. Especially when he's edging on 50.

Ring Pop!

I remember going on the internet at 6 (AOL) in the early 90's. They had a "kid second" and it was just a picture of the rabbit and I had to rearrange the pieces. I was like, Fuck man, the internet is super boring.

MINT AERO BARS I WANT YOU.

Oh okay great! I had no idea—thank you. I went to uni abroad (where it was free for citizens and foreigners paid full boat). My grandma went to Columbia, but that was back...wayy way back.

I wonder if he was getting a scholarship or if he was a paying full tuition in cash? I'm seriously curious.

This. Seconded. Especially if there's a power discrepancy and the victim has been groomed.

Baha. You're so right.

Yeah. I agree. I am a chef and friends with chefs. We do actual food photography when it's worthwhile—you know—sharing new recipes. I don't take photos of my home cooked meals because who gives a shit.

Got my nose done almost 8 years ago. I think I am an ugly cry face.

Congratz on doing the Humanist wedding! That's so exciting. I'm so happy that it's becoming recognized and respected as a legitimate way to get hitched. I've been a member of both the BHA and the AHA. It's my goal if my SO and I ever to get hitched to have it be a full on humanist ordeal. Also, you make me laugh…

I agree. My SO is a writer and I will look over his work occasionally. I was really pleasantly surprised when he asked for my opinion on his female characters. He earnestly wanted help developing a fully fleshed out woman that avoided the tropes. His whole approach was so touching—he cares so much about how women are…

Thanks! That's great. I'm so glad someone else has gone through that successfully. :D :D