*applause*

I don't! I always forget which is which. ::)

Aside from general traits that everyone looks for in everyone else (respect, empathy, open-mindedness, not being a dick, etc.), there's no "right" or "wrong" in dating. You just need to find someone who's looking for someone like you. Which isn't easy!

I caught this when I was listening to him talk, and pondered the same thing. Then I realized that if one of his girls was in a wheelchair, had a hair lip, was wearing braces, was a bit overweight, anything that doesn't fit into our culture's current definition of "attractive"... he would've called them beautiful…

This made me smile. :)

"Pornogrogy."

Hahaha! Yeah, I feel that way about my (totally non-discrete) Jezzie account, too. I think I'm even more TMI-vomitty here than I am on Twitter!

You are not alone! How do they do that??

I've only been stoned a handful of times to begin with, but the very first time I got high (in college, and unexpectedly, as it'd never worked on me before), I had to drive 2 hours home through the unfamiliar Virginia countryside, at night. I waited about a half-hour (writing really bad poetry and giggling a lot)…

Ugh, thank you. And now I feel like an idiot for clicking on the link to this story SOLELY to come in and bitch about it. Whether it's the people who want to read the story, or people who want to comment on how sick it is that it's CONSIDERED a story, sneaky Jezebel assholes keep getting the numbers they crave.

Hah, I was just coming here to gripe about the incorrect spelling of "its." At least he was consistent!

Ahh, this is the best article I've ever read on the topic. Upfront and brutal. Because really, who ARE these people who keep writing articles about boys-and-girls-can-they-be-friends, wondering honestly about it, as if it's an impossible mystery? And HOW MANY of those writers are secretly pining for THEIR best friend,…

Skimming the replies to your comment, I'm pretty sure your questions have been answered, but I wanted to chime in anyway.

If these are considered "truly odd" poses, then I've been taking my models for granted! Don't get me wrong, this guy's good. But we've had several fantastic upside-down and physically challenging poses at my weekly drawing group, and my pal Scotty would occasionally come in with a heavy, well-worn axe and hold it for…

I didn't find this offensive until I noticed THE FACE PAINT and then THE RECOMMENDATION OF SAID FACE PAINT. Wtfffff?!!

I'm just gonna drop the link to that eco-conscious vibe here, because I have no idea what OpenSky is but it requires a membership.

Wow, I'm really impressed at how little they change in the post-processing on these! The models are truly kind of super-human (although I'm happy to see those between-the-eyebrow lines in the original photos, as that's a defining feature of my own face). This is hardly scandalous compared to some of the…

Personally, I think they just need a mandatory "Ron Jeremy PSA" law. Like, before every porn video, Ron says, "Hey, this porn is intended to be a fantasy. In your real life Sexy Times, always confirm consent, use a condom, and get tested regularly like we do." That would make a world of difference in people's…

The newer items, YES, those should be removed. But the vintage items? I dunno. As someone mentioned earlier, does anyone know why people collect such things? I took my partner to my favorite flea market a few years ago (I live in West Virginia, he's from upstate New York), and he was horrified to see that someone was…

So THAT'S why apes never find me attractive. All I seem to attract are men who have similar life goals, sense of humor, pastimes, and sexual appetite. :.(