The causative factors for human sexual expression are predominantly biological.

Prophylactic Pinkham’s Law-ception!

GAAAH, creepy. =(

Lol, no, I don’t think testosterone has anything to do with it (speaking of baseless hypotheses), because women like sex, too. I don’t feel like Googling about it now but I bet the “low-T” levels of your average grampaw are still higher than mine. The point is, old guys are having sex with the people who are available…

Maybe I’m guilty of that which I complain, though, cuz I am UNFORGIVING about music theory. It’s like... obligatory. Because if I want to help people become collaborative musicians, and people who never learn theory are impossible to work with and DON’T KNOW THEY ARE (that’s what kills me)

Not sure how that’s sexist. I’m pretty explicitly saying that men aren’t biologically wired to be jerks - that they’re equal to women. Hell, that’s probably the least sexist thing you’ve read all week.

Not a very strong insult in the modern era of blossoming trans acceptance

Exactly, so comparing how they look is totes a compliment unless Ru is self-hating which, as the above commenter has expressed, is a possible interpretation

Unless the shade means, “you look fabulous but your TV audience is really dumb” which...

We obviously can’t question the judgment of shade in re: Ru Paul -> Wendy Williams, but... how is that shade? Isn’t that more like a compliment?

As an extrovert, it’s so hard for us to interact with people who behave like this... especially those of us who are insecure and expect people to dislike us.

The hypothesis “men are stimulated visually more so than women because they are conditioned to be” is a stronger hypothesis than “men are stimulated visually more so than women because.”

Oh my god thank you for saying this. I’ve been fat since childhood and had a bad patch of depression in college due to parental abuse and separate emotional abuse from a boyfriend, and one of my close friends talked me into going to the free counseling on campus.

We look at porn too, buddy. IF you’re more “visually stimulated” than women it’s possibly because your eye-boners are catered to more than ours, and we take what we can get. That’s probably why more women identify as bisexual, too. We spend our whole lives internalizing the male gaze.

OMG yes to this. Every new haircut since I got married has gotten shorter and shorter than the last one. I’d been growing it out for the wedding...

Even my pro-choice friends have sexist biases, don’t yours?

This past weekend, I asked my husband to help with pulling up rotten landscape timbers in the yard - I’d do it myself, but I’m 3rd trimester - while I was weeding the hosta beds.

But once you found your husband, you stopped looking. What makes you think you COULDN’T find anyone else?

Prep is different but not “better than” goth, and isn’t a reflection of who you are on the inside.

Do you judge books by their covers, too?