This exactly. Maybe if the manager hadn’t been involved she could have spoken to them? As it is the server was mortified and quickly owned up to the customer and their manager, which is the best they could really do. Unless that server was also making the drinks, they’re caught in the middle of a shitty situation…

You can’t steal a person is (I think)the op’s point. They go willingly, they are an active participant, not property that can be stolen. That’s just letting one person off the hook entirely for something that requires two.

It’s funny you say that about the bandage on his head, it reminded me of both my grandpa after he had a skin cancer removal, but also of my dad, a drunk who could really hold his liquor until he got old and then he’d have lots of accidents like taking a header down the stairs. Either seems entirely possible for this…

Holy shit, really? Are you in CA by chance? I’m on the east coast and details about this have been scarce since he was caught. I want know more about what they’re finding in and around his house. I’m curious if they’ve found his trophy stash, I bet he’s still got all of it. This trial is going to be bonkers, I hope he…

Ugh, goddamnit that’s horrible I’m sorry. And that’s the age they’re most susceptible to bullshit ideologies and crappy influences. They’re all just spongy and stupid at 12-15. And I’m sure his dad is keeping things super casual and fun at his house because the last thing kids that age appreciate are rules yet it’s…

Exactly. He was also in court straight up pretending he can barely speak which is rich since he’s been recently screaming at nothing in his backyard. I suspect his public defender is trying to make him appear as frail as possible. I can’t say I blame them for trying, there is a tremendous amount of evidence against…

Spread the word. Please. My own father doesn’t believe me that things have gotten this bad, we need men speaking up loudly about this to other men.

Still works, they can all now comfortably take a fuckin’ seat.

I think ancestry is just a basic one but yeah the ones that include medical info like 23andme seem dicey. I’m not even sure how reliable those 23andme things are either.

From what I’m seeing today, they may have used a DNA testing site like 23andme or ancestry and then narrowed it down by age and location. (Both those companies deny they were used for this though). It’s an interesting thing. This fucker needed to be caught but I’m a little unnerved about online DNA testing sites being…

You do a good service every time you speak on what you just did. Speaking only for myself I’d say while I appreciate your offer to allow yourself to be a punching bag for women who want to vent, as someone who has been sexually assaulted I don’t want to take it out on you or anyone who isn’t the man responsible for…

Honestly this just isn’t the site for that kind of reporting unfortunately. It is being covered well elsewhere but here the focus is just different, and it’s not always the best take. (I too get frustrated by that but that’s also why I don’t get my news from here) Oswalt worked with her team to finish her book so I…

Oh did they say that today? I was waiting to hear whether or not he was, last I heard yesterday they said they were going to check her files and see. I wonder if he’s somewhere in those boxes and boxes of files she had that she’d only gotten like, 1/3 of the way through when she died. One of the scariest things about…

Ahh I see, yeah I disagree with that too. You’re absolutely right, she was very vocal about the detectives she had working relationships with for many years, she had a lot of respect for them. They discussed things with her that they didn’t have to and she knew that. If she were alive today I have no doubt she’d be…

Ok a couple things though, she had a suspect list 1,000 names long and she was slowly working through them. You can’t actually start naming suspects in a book that haven’t been cleared by police because you’ll get sued and possibly completely derail a police investigation. I don’t think Patton nor anyone else is…

Oh no doubt. He’ll be inconvenienced and probably bored for several years, and that’s about it.

I mean, yes, anything can happen but there’s no denying that it is way, way more likely to happen if the parent is significantly older when a child is born. People just don’t typically live to a healthy 90+yrs old so when you have a kid at 60, yeah that kid is going to deal with some heavy adult stuff when they’re…

I mean, sure, but I think many servers play it safe because lots of people think they’re adventurous or open but then complain that things are too spicy or too weird or too [insert unhappiness here]. Depending on who is running the kitchen, that can cause problems and the server gets shit for it. The people who wait…

You’re...exaggerating a bit, right? Like, you don’t actually speak to your server with that level of contempt and rudeness, do you?

This comment is even dumber than your last one.