guys if we ever meet irl please dont be upset that i am not a dinosaur

Actually men have the same fears. There was a serial killer couple in Alberta, Canada who lured men into death traps. I have been in Latin America for some time and internet dating for white dudes is akin to suicide. Just about anyone who responds to a gringo has an agenda and there are horror stories of kidnappings,…

i made the mistake of going on an okcupid date without updating my pictures. figured a 15-lb weight differential wouldn't be DEAL-BREAKING.

Men's biggest fear about online dating: a fat chick.

Seriously...i met my wife on ok cupid. We've been together 6 years now. But my profile only got 2 replies. I'm guessing the ladies get more.

Colour me old-fashioned, but it seems reasonable to get to know someone in person prior to moving in with them.

then consider responding with your picture and height.

"Chivalrous" and "geeky" set off more alarm bells than his height, but being told to get over my heightism is also a red flag.

I'm also 5'4", which is why I am single.

Listen, I've heard En Vogue's "Free Your Mind," too. You're not going to educate me on the minority experience in America any more than my life already has. There's a massive difference between flustered, furious and crazy. As a person of color, a "plus size" person, and a gay person I'm very familiar with what…