Yes, thank you. It's so disappointing to see people attack someone for trying to do the right thing, just because they didn't do it *exactly* how they think it should be done. As if it's actually possible to please everyone (pro tip: it's not).

Oh give it a rest. Lots of people 'maintain their desirability' after they've been married for a while, and still get cheated on. Let's be clear here, cheating has very little to do with the victim, and everything to do with the cheater. If you don't want to fuck your husband anymore, fine, but don't blame him.

Yes, thank you. This is becoming huge pet peeve of mine.

No, I think the OP is absolutely right, especially with the description of the husband's feelings on the matter. The women in question notes that he's jealous, he doesn't want to know about the people, and that he was hurt when he found out and they continue to argue about it. If the shoe was on the other foot, that…

I think people get angry and judgmental because they know it would be a really shitty feeling to be cheated on. The idea that we're supposed to just 'accept' when people betray those they've promised to be true to is just ludicrous to me.

I'm so sick of the narrative that being monogamous is somehow not part of the human condition. There are lots of people who have no problem being monogamous, and who actively seek it out. Just because your relationship doesn't work like that doesn't make it an unrealistic expectation. Do your thing, but leave the…

This was my thought exactly. According to her, he has some jealousy, don't love the idea, and doesn't want to know about it. That's the exact opposite of being happy in an open relationship. It sounds like he's deeply devoted to her, and possibly also feels afraid of dealing with his medical issues without her, and so…

Oh good. I've been wondering what to charge for my chest shitting services.

I can't muster a lot of sympathy for someone who participated in an affair - regardless of how old she was or how powerful he was.

Seriously though, Kim K looks like a mutant from X Men. Pretty, but not quite human.

I'll preface this by saying the invitations turned out really well, but holy hell, the process was just painful.

Community is one of my favourite tv shows ever, and I'm so SO excited that they're getting their fabled "6th season".

I'm with you on being purposefully childless, but there are a lot of important reasons for maternity leave. That time is for healing, bonding and preparing for a very different life. You and I are welcome to not have kids, but discriminating against people who have children just because of a few irritating…

I got the impression they weren't clapping because nobody wants to give a standing ovation to "most incarcerated country". There wasn't a rile up moment in that speech that people could clap for, other than the speech as a whole.

I'm just going to assume he takes the term "food baby" literally.

Sooo... Marvin Bush 2024?

It's time for something serious and definitive to happen here. I believe many countries in the UN would send in ground troops to tackle ISIS, and I hope Boko Haram (although, Africa, as always, is not on anyone's radar).

As with everything, the success of moving in together at any stage really depends on the couple in question. I've been living with my boyfriend since about the 6 month mark, and we've had a pretty easy go of it for the last year, in the relationship department. Having both gone through bouts of unemployment and family…

I'm Canadian - I've never heard of the Hispanic lynchings in California, but I've heard lots about the lynching of black people in the south.

This is one poll where I can accept the lack of Canada. I love my country, but our accent(s) doesn't exactly make my undies fall off.