I wish there were more women like you! Some of the assholes here amaze me. They refuse to communicate, and then blame the guys when they CHOOSE to fake it.

One more example of why white women are the worst racists. They think their success, as the second most privileged group in the country, makes up for the continued oppression of others.

And one can do that when they themselves are stable, good people.

Bingo.

Jezebel, where scientifically, all men are white.

It’s kind of hilarious that someone goes to such desparate lenghts to defnd cheating on one’s partner. And then she has the nerve to say, well don’t question a cheater’s character, because it’s all complicated.

Exactly. Why should I believe someone that lied, and then promises, oh but that lie was just once.

Sweetheart, if you want to defend a selfish asshole breaking the trust of their partner, have at it. That’s a choice sword to fall on. I’m sure it will treat you really well.

Sooooo....that makes no sense since as I’ve known some to have cheated multiple times. So they’ll tell me when they do it more than once but not just once? Yeah, sound logic there.

Preach!

Yes! At least Netflix is reliable. And Netflix changes for me, it doesn’t try to change me.

Totally. My genetalia doesn’t prevent me from doing the dishes or laundry, or her genetalia doesn’t prevent her from cleaning the gutters or taking me out on a date.

I’m saying, the “It’s not easy to not do this b ad thing I just can’t help it” is a bullshit cop out. Have some self discipline. People manage to avoid engaging in shitty behavior all the time. They just don’t do it. Sometimes that takes work, but saying they can’t help it just means they aren’t willing to have the…

Men get raped too.

Mine couldn’t. Turns out she was a cheater as well.

I disagree. Words have meaning. Commitments mean something. If someone doesn’t want, or isn’t capable of having a monogamous relationship, that’s fine. Open relationships are a thing. But if you’ve committed to a monogamous relationship then your partner has every reason to expect you to adhere to that commitment, and…

Good point re: different perspectives. I think that’s right.

Agreed. I don’t know any women that cheated that only did so once. My lesson is, if she cheats, leave the relationship. Because she cannot be trusted.

No, it IS as easy as not doing it. That’s like saying, oh, but not abusing your SO isn’t as easy as not doing it.

Once again, it’s you in a more priviledged position, talking down to me, the person more likely to be beaten or killed on account of my gender. There is a gendered difference in how severe authorities treat men and women. There are also racial disparities. You only want to look at one side, ignoring the dynamic in…