The fact that he repeatedly made sexual advances after being asked to stop, including following a woman around his apartment and repeatedly continuing after she asked him not too, both verbally and non-verbally. But cute attempt at implying I’m racist.

So when she repeatedly asked him to stop and removed her hand from where he put it on his genitals, that was her revoking consent. So he’s still predatory and gross.

Going to someone’s place does not mean you consent to any and all sexual acts following your arrival there, and this idea is damaging as fuck.

If you consent to vaginal sex but not to anal sex, but someone has anal sex with you anyway, when you didn’t consent to it, would you say “Oh but I went back to their place so…

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Totally! I was just pointing out that there’s not a ton of detail in her letter and it’s likely that if it’s this irritating to her to the point where she’s referring to it as such there’s information we’re not getting.

Ostensibly she knows if it’s a phone-locked-in-the-desk scenario if she refers to this person as her boyfriend. She’s clearly noticed a pattern that’s not necessarily explained by work routine etc.

It wasn’t supposed to be explained imo. To me it seemed like he was using some kind of mystical ability to make people like him because he needed his ego fed at all times.

I’m almost certain you were not supposed to like Bardem’s character at all

She focused on it that way because of her personal experiences, she wasn’t excluding anyone. OP talked about DACA and liberals “importing refugees,” so she answered with an explanation of why DACA is beneficial. Your comment was kind of out of left field tbh

Publicly outing rapists is A Good Thing even if they aren’t prosecuted.

Ha yeah I realized after I commented that that may not have been directed at me.

I am also obsessed with murder, which often leads to me terrifying my friends. I once used Richard Chase to shame my best friend into locking her door lol

Oh girl I know who DD is, I’m OBSESSED with this case

This is some Robert Durst shit.

OKAY but David Harbour I have love handles AND love eating sandwiches so pls call me any time.

Except that women get raped with alarming frequency, and it’s a terrifying thing that happens, and his whole shtick is tapping into the things we’re most afraid of/are the most violating.

This book is actually more about working through trauma and how important it is to do so than it is about rape, even though that’s…

That’s fair, I remember liking Sabriel the most as well (it’s been a long time since I read the series).

OH MY GOD if they did the entire Abhorsen series I would DIE.

I never disagreed with that statement. But it’s victim blamey and gross to be all “Don’t go to North Korea, we told you so!”

Yeah everyone knows blocking buses ONLY blocks buses and not other traffic and definitely doesn’t cause delays for everyone, what the hell are they thinking?

I’m talking about the commenters here, not the North Korean government.