It’s another crappy way for privileged, oppressive jerkfaces to dismiss and dehumanize the vulnerable and disenfranchised.

The dysfunctional media reinforces this horrific trope far too often.

I know what they think they’re saying, but it’s not what they’re literally saying. “Don’t be a victim” is insulting to victims. It’s like “don’t be offended” when someone says something horrible.

“Don’t be a victim” has got to be one of the dumbest, most enraging arguments ever. You’re already a victim, you can’t choose to be one or not; that choice was up to the person who victimized you.

Trump is like a sentient Onion article that doesn’t realize it was born in satire.

“The JTC also seems unamused that when Gorcyca referred to the Manson cult in reference to the children she made “circular motions at her right temple,” the common offensive gestural shorthand for “crazy.” In an October letter to the Commission, Gorcyca claimed that the circular motion she made “was referring to the…

Oh, thank goodness. That was horrifying.

Where are all these hard-working white men?

Sniveling Privilegewank. Is. The. Best. Phrase. Ever.

Jesus Christ. We want just some place for us at the goddamn table and some white people act like we’re saying no white people allowed.

Doing the right thing (not supporting the Walton family) for the wrong reasons (racism). This reminds me of when my county took all religious holidays off the school calendar rather than add Muslim ones.

Dear Henry, the guy who thinks he needs a“safe space” for white dudes: it’s called EVERYWHERE. Inviting more people to the table doesn’t make you unsafe, you sniveling privilegewank.

I saw the greatest meme the other day (and of course I can’t find it now); it had a picture of a bunch of white people and the text was something along the lines of, “White People: So privileged even basic equality seems like discrimination.” I lolled so hard, and then I cried. Because it’s just so true.

Agreed, my hair is curly and dry and my hair looks best with co-washing. I think we’ve been trained to think that not using shampoo is gross.

Wen has surfactants, which are what act as the cleansing agents. I don’t know whether your average lotion has surfactants, maybe it does and maybe you’d be cleaner than before if you showered with it and washed it off. Alls I know is I have oily hair that Wen gets clean & shiny. Run of the mill conditioners don’t do…

Black naturalistas have been doing the co-wash for years (washing with conditioner) and it actually is really good for our hair. Maybe it depend on the texture?

Yeah. My hair is curly and sucks up moisture, so regular shampoo (which I admit, I still use infrequently - maybe once a month or so) just dries it out and makes it fuzzy and feel brittle. My hair behaves best when I use Wen - and I’ve tried other cleansing conditioners but they don’t seem to work quite as well for…

Me too, it makes my hair feel super clean without the giant POOF of regular shampoo.

Huh. I mean... I use Wen. Haven’t experienced this. I really like it actually. I don’t lose more hair with it than with any other hair cleansing product I’ve used.