I think that falls into the "basic grooming" category, and nobody is going to begrudge you that. It doesn't make you overly-picky.

Eh, I've always had tons of tall, conventionally attractive guys wanting to date me, but that didn't stop me from dating a fat man. I'm actually really fucking short, too, so I prefer dating guys who are under 6', but that never stopped me from dating someone over 6', even though there were tons of shorter guys to…

You clearly deserve what you have now: nobody.

This exactly! (so well-said, really) You're super-picky? Ok, have fun with that, and don't ever complain to me about being single.

Does thinking "everyone is an asshole" make you feel better about being an asshole? I'm thinking it does. Everyone is not an asshole, but it's nice to see you admit to being an asshole.

Deal breaker: violence.

For those of you who are wondering about good examples of white artists who do black music/culture non-offensively, here's Teena Marie:

I can give you two solid examples where this is not an issue: Johnny Winter (Muddy Waters called him his adopted son), and Teena Marie. Teena Marie went to Venice High, grew up in the black community, and her style has always been influenced by soul music and funk. Both Winter and Marie have a genuine appreciation for…

I'm just going to point this out because I get sad when I see that cat: the kitty, as far as I know, was suffering from a dislocated jaw.

You hit the nail on the (idiotic) head!

Yeah, I got that you were joking, but EaglesExMachina actually asked a question. Not JOKES.

Yeah, I like Munn and dislike Plaza. I feel like Plaza has too much of a schtick.

She probably does a lot of it with grants and donations. She got started out with a Fellowship. And since she went to law school before it became prohibitively expensive for many of us, along with her interesting life experience (maybe they awarded her scholarships), she may not have been too far in debt. And then…

I've been thinking for a long time that a mobile psychologist could be a great help to many people who can't get transportation to see a therapist. It would be easy enough to set up an office inside an RV. A wonderful dentist did this and now works in his mobile dentist's office in West Virginia.

A+ advice!

Just got to your mailbox and pull the VS catalogue out, and boom! You have Leonardo's most recent list of ex-girlfriends!

Yeah, I didn't read it as slut-shame-y at all. In fact, I read it as an impressive list of lovers. Like, "oooh, lucky lady has her pick!" Honestly, I might pick some different guys (EZRA MILLER), but still. Nice list!

I'm sorry, my reply was unnecessary and unhelpful.

So I mean, what's your answer? Don't ever write about mass murderers?

My point is that they knew it was a sensitive issue, and that it would upset people. And yet, here you are saying it's unreasonable for people to be upset. Consider your position for a moment.