Oh Babs, we love you so!

I love Beyonce, but is anyone else getting tired of her and Jay pushing their relationship in the media? For a couple that prides themselves on being private, they're giving themselves too much publicity.

I don't think the study is saying that women are lying etc. at all. What it is saying isn't entirely clear because there's a lot more data that needs to be added to a study like this, but generally it is pointing to a possible disconnect between what arouses the conscious mind and what arouses the subconscious mind.…

Damn... That picture made me want to call my boyfriend, and he's working for the next 5 hours.

Im ovulating right now and that lead picture turned me the fuck on. DAYUM.

Yeah, in the same camp. Damnnn.

Here's another: Lots of guys get boners at the proctologist. Does that mean they love a man's fingers up their asses and want more?

Not gonna lie, I'm turned on by a lot of hardcore stuff in porn. I'm turned on by stuff in porn that I would never even do in real life. And that I probably wouldn't admit to if I was asked for a study. And once you plugged my vagina into the thingamajig and actually measured my level of arousal, chances are my…

Meanwhile, I had a somewhat hippie mom who was not slut-shamey AT ALL! And was all "Explore your sexuality!"

I didn't have sex until I was 21, and can count my number of sex partners on one hand. Part of me wishes I had more sex before I was married, but the other part of me knows that's just not me.

There's also a…

"not to just give it away to any body."
"that boys will take what they can get"

I hate this idea that a woman's sexuality is there to be GIVEN and that men/boys TAKE it, like a woman's sexuality is some sort of object. This is a fucked up mentality all around.

"First thing I thought when I read that question was: Why daughters? Why mothers? And why would dads never be asked this question about themselves or their sons? But we know why — because men still aren't called sluts, and are often not even called promiscuous, which is just a coded word for slut and is typically used…

You are not alone. I have had quite a few partners, honestly more than I can count and I've never been interested in keeping count. I have absolutely no regrets.

I find this quote,

For every person I know who had a lot of casual sexual partners because they were confident and sex-positive, I know 20 who did so because they did not value themselves (I'm talking both genders here, I've never bought the argument that casual sex is healthier for one gender). I think the sex-positive parenting…

Be safe, be respectful, make sure everything is consensual and have fun!

My dad brought the subject up with me while I was driving him by starting with "I guess we should talk about sex. I don't really know what to say because my dad never had this talk with me, but make sure you care about her and take care of her needs too" (pretty solid advice) and a few days later my mom stopped me…

Well what I meant to say is that we take sex between two consenting partners way more seriously than we take the horror of non-consensual sex.

No I meant consensual sex. We do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid talking about non-consensual encounters or even taking them seriously, but we freak out over sex with consenting partners.

Once again, going to great lengths to perpetuate the lie...

My mother never told me anything. All she said was that her first time was terrible and she got pregnant (with my sister). Hmm.... Maybe this is why I was a 23-year-old virgin and am still super freaking scared of getting pregnant every time I have sex, despite birth control. Ya think?