I love love love her music and some of the things that she says are so on point. That radio interview- she can be very perceptive and articulate. But she is wrong in many many ways and it's a shame she can't listen and reflect on what people are saying to her.

I had that. It got really bad, my head used to bleed and my hair was all stuck together with pus (sorry TMI). I stopped using shampoo with SLS in it, that helped a bit bit but it finally disappeared when I was on an elimination diet for something else. I found out it was wheat. Now I don't have it at all and an hour…

You put that so well. I really disapprove of adults who get high or drink with teenagers. Not because getting high or drinking is inherently bad for either party, but you don't do it together. You just don't!

I cannot believe that is a newborn and this lady is Wonder Woman.

that's a great tip. Thank you for all your excellent advice

Dude. 1 Feliway plug in and moving the litter tray to a more secluded spot....totally worked! I knew Jezebel was the place to go for cat advice :) I only bought the diffuser today, that stuff is like magic.

They call that Irish twins. Siblings who are in the same year at school but not actually twins. My mum has one, her sister is 11 months younger (they are actually also Irish).

You are so nice. I do feel bad. I knew cats don't like change and are territorial but I guess I didn't think it would effect him so much. I've had cats all my life but I've never moved house with them before. I should have ordered Feliway when we first moved. Anyway, I've had lots of helpful advice so I'm sure we'll…

that's a good idea. Our new garden is shared between a few other properties, there is another cat there which unfortunately I can't do anything about but maybe if I do some (gross) scent marking that might make it feel more like home. I have 2 cats, 1 is completely unphased by the move and wasted no time in claiming…

That was all incredibly informative, thank you

Oh don't worry , I've stopped trying to make outside happen. I can also resign myself to scrubbing cat crap out of my carpet every morning if it's an issue that will resolve itself eventually.

Thanks. Sounds like another tray with some soil in is worth a shot.

Oh god! We just wanted a bigger house! I didn't want to traumatise the furry little guy. I feel bad :(

I like it. It's cheap!

I also have a 5 year old and hair is a daily pain in the ass. But when she kicks off, I'm like, that's cool, no brushing and no pony tails, I'll make an appointment at the hairdressers on Saturday.

That is so so helpful. I had thought that the smell of his poop might be attracting him to the same spot. I was scrubbing with antibacterial wipes but this sounds great. Thank you

He's 8, we got him as an adult ( belonged to a friend who was moving abroad) and he's never truly settled in our family. He loves me but hates my partner and is terrified by my children. He's super sensitive. Feliway definitely sounds worth a try.

Damn. Little douche. I'll try the snuggle approach then.

I didn't know that some cats need 2, one for each bodily function! He never did before but it's worth a try. Thanks

we have a tray, one he used to use with no issues (also a few years ago when we first got him) but he now is going outside the tray