Feliway seems to be a common suggestion so I'll definitely give it a try. Thank you

I had no idea cat antidepressants were a thing! I'm seeing the vet on Friday for his boosters so I'll ask her then.

I have taken him outside, sat with him etc and tried to introduce him slowly. The last couple of nights I have tried putting him out for 20 minutes before I go to bed to see if he would go to the toilet so I dont wake up to cat shit everywhere. But it didn't work and obviously I don't want to stress him out more.

We share the garden and yes there is another cat. He's a huge wimp. I did wonder if he's doing it deliberately.

I would tell her that she doesn't have to brush it, but in that case she has to keep it short. Long hair gets tangled and needs daily brushing. That way it's her choice.

I've kind of been waiting for a cat post because I have a cat behaviour question and I know there are lots of knowledgable cat types on Jezebel.

London. Pasty ass, facial hair sporting, craft beer drinking, bad tattoo having, librarian dressing hipster mother fuckers be everywhere

gross

This this this

Ohmygodimpeeingblood oh no, wait, I had beetroot salad for lunch. The ups and downs of the beetroot loving lifestyle

Well for starters, we were in my sisters house. I went into her spare bedroom (where we were staying) to get something- and there he was. Perhaps surprised is a better word.

Seconded and thirded. Sleep trumps all for me.

I walked in on my then boyfriend, now husband wanking in front if a mirror. We both looked shocked and neither of us ever mentioned it again!

Seriously, 90% of the trendy white boys in southern England look like this. If he's got a douchey personality (I give you exhibit A, this article) then I do not find it hard to believe at all that he's single. He's 10 a penny.

Really??? But it like...just hurts you more but in a different place. I'm glad it's not total nonsense in that case, but I found it to be completely inane.

I did not know that

it's a pretty low dose mixed with air. You start inhaling when the contraction begins, get a bit spaced out while the contraction heats up and then it wears off after a few minutes. It makes you lightheaded but you don't trip out or anything. It doesn't take the pain away as such but it definitely makes it more…

Yeah guys, gas and air! It's standard pain relief in the UK during labour. I had my 2nd baby with that in the pool. It was so much better than my epidural hospital bed birth I had with my first. Tens machines though- those things are a ridiculous invention.

I still hate her.

wow, I had to read the comments to understand the mugs were a play on fiancé. I need coffee.