Right??? I can’t even imagine. I wonder if he knew the two victims? Because that would really fuck with me, I think, if two of my colleagues or friends were killed and I knew I survived.

It looks like one last person, who is alive and unharmed*, was on the list.

Wait, nevermind, coffee kicked in and so did the reading comprehension. Still stand by my “fucking horrible” statement though.

Did she actually go undiscovered, or was the link not made until after the UCLA shooting? Either way: fucking horrible.

True. I guess if my client in an unrelated matter was charged with a crime I wouldn’t even want to be NEAR the press or say ANYTHING. I would cite privacy or something, but just...walk away. So bonkers.

And an excellent chef, too, I’m sure!

But why would his divorce attorney weigh in at all? I presume he wouldn’t also be his defense attorney, so why even say anything? So bizarre to me.

A friend of mine confessed to me - after we had graduated high school - that she had a “thing” going with one of her coaches, although they didn’t have sex-sex until after we graduated. But her mom loved him, she was allowed to be at his home alone, and he absolutely messed with her. I don’t think her mom knew exactly…

A Mexican coworker of mine said his dad supports Trump and he is baffled. It seems to come down to things like abortion (Catholics just love the baybeez) and the swagger.

Not to mention Depp got all bent out of shape about Lily dating an older guy and probably lectured her while New Mommy rolled around on a pile of cash on the floor next to him. I’d be annoyed too at the hypocrisy and wouldn’t be as likely to attempt a relationship with her.

It’s also - and someone can correct me if I’m totally off - close to the “viability” marker. Not that survival or quality of life is guaranteed, mind you, just that viability is near. So I think there’s a push to “protect a life” even if it means everything will fall to shit immediately.

I am so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family peace and healing.

You’re not lame and you’re not alone. Not sure if this is any consolation, but if you have time to give, volunteering at a clinic can make a huge difference in your community. I get that you want to drive bigger change, but if you’re an escort you’re making people in your community feel safer and that IS huge. Keep up…

I know a couple who had a similar situation (quick civil ceremony for legal reasons, followed by bigger ceremony with all the usual wedding/reception trappings and a blessing from a priest) and while they insisted that the second date would be their real anniversary (aka the one they acknowledged and celebrated and…

Aw thank you. I’m an only child (well, I have a younger half brother but we weren’t raised together) and take my friendships really seriously! We’ve been friends since we were kids and have stood by each other through family deaths, illnesses, abusive relationships, and really bad haircuts and I honestly thought she…

Holy shit. I always feel like such a slacker when I think about all the broken engagements and custody battles I didn’t have by age 29 ;) That’s so weird that she keeps the pics up for future guys to see. I mean, ask for what you want, for sure, but I’d be weirded out if I were dating her.

That’s completely reasonable not to buy tickets and NINE different engagement gifts (holy shit) based on past experience. I find it sort of odd that your cousin has kept all the pictures of different rings from different men live on FB. I mean, I know I tend to go scorched earth when a breakup occurs, so I can’t…

Yeah, I give her/her team serious credit for protecting her assets.

I didn’t mean to sound judgey because hey! People are going to run their lives the way they see fit but I absolutely agree that it seems like she’s putting herself through a lot of unnecessary hassle and paperwork (although sounds like she has a good team since her last prenup was air tight) when it’s totally fine to…

She’s at least trying to brand herself as the white/blonde JLo or Halle Berry personal-life wise with all these engagements and divorces.