“No your boundaries are not just about you and your behavior. Idk who in the world thought that is the reality, but in the real world boundaries involve everyone in the relationship.”

I dated a guy for a little bit who was in analysis 3x a week, no judgment, but he started telling me things him and his therapist were deciding about things i said etc, felt like too many people in the relationship 

Really that’s one hell of a take. Hill wrote those abusive texts with his own hand, but it’s the victims is bad because she released them? That’s rich. 

I think a lot of therapy speak is used to enable narcissism, not just of the controlling, emotionally abusive, misogynistic type Jonah Hill exhibited, but in general.

Yeah this the one that took it to emotional manipulation. The “list” is cringy and a big red flag, this text is pretty clear manipulation.

Insecurity is a real p.i.t.a. to deal with. His list of his red flags are pretty much all “hey I am so afraid of looking like a weak man, I project my insecurity loudly” which ironically is a pretty big red flag.

“You refuse to let go of some [photos] and you’ve made that clear. I hope they make you happy.”

**This**

I think what makes it manipulative is that he started a relationship with someone who was a professional surfer, who’s social media history and presence including oodles of this content that he wanted her to get rid of, and he appears to have not mentioned that beforehand only bringing up during the relationship. If…

Dudes love that shit. “I love your free spirit”. Then the woman exhibits said free-spirited behavior.  “But not like that.”

Or pics of your said girl wearing what amounts to what she has to wear to do her job. Next thing you know he’s gonna date an exotic dancer and be jealous.

Boundaries are about your behavior and what you do, not about the other person. If you don’t want your girlfriend to have swimsuit photos online, you take the action to find a girlfriend who isn’t a professional surfer (or just one who doesn’t post swimsuit shots). Your boundary doesn’t proscribe your partner’s…

That ring looks like a crown, which is even better.

That ring looks like a crown, which is even better.

White tigers are, from my understanding, generally more docile than regular tigers, due to the inbreeding. They were (are?) sought after by circus trainers because they`re easier to train.

Not Sharon Jones!
I once got free tickets to a Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings show at the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and afterwards felt I owed her money.
Lady worked so hard, I should have paid her for the tickets I got for free.

Actually, this person who can read thinks you're the one who looks like an asshole. odette1 said in the first post that it only "appears" Angelina Jolie is prioritizing the premiere and that all kinds of things could have been going on behind the scenes we aren't privy to.

I'm not a particular fan of Angeline Jolie. I haven't seen a movie of hers in probably 5+ years and I'm not that fond the whole "adopting a rainbow" thing she's got going on. But while I would agree with you that it looks like she prioritized a premier over a funeral, I don't have a problem with that.

Sigh. Fans.