Because he has a serious and I would imagine insanely physically complicated, emotionally toiling, and (possibly) sexually frustrating abnormality BUT, ah-ha, is attractive - he “may be the perfect man” ?! I'm going with this being tongue in cheek because Jesus Christ. The implications in every direction are so fucked…

WTF is wrong with Jezebel writers that they have stoop to making fun of a man who was born with a serious disfigurement?

and since he’s currently penis-free, he might actually be the perfect man.

“since he’s currently penis-free, he might actually be the perfect man.”

I think all people who make a spectacle of themselves should get turned down hard.

Wait, weren’t we just lamenting these things earlier this week? How am I supposed to know where I stand on this if we keep waffling all the time.

Either her poopstume is seriously aging her face or she is too old for this shit.

Aaaaah, that’s so cute. Probably. Unless Sean broke up with her 15 months ago and already has a homecoming date with his new girlfriend, she has been cyberstalking him since their break-up and sleeps in her car outside his house.

Looks like its curtains for her.

LOL. The “patriarchy” created this guy who was raised by his mother, whom everyone is saying was the most influential person in his life and extremely (uncomfortably) close to him.

Toxic masculinity and its death cycle.

We’re obligated to do and be certain things while also supposedly entitled to certain things. Going without either fucks with the programming.

We’re supposed to be take-charge, high-motivation people. We’re supposed to be virile and sexually desirable. We’re supposed to be the…

None of this justifies murdering people, but when you take isolated men and send them a message of “you aren’t good enough, so just go away and don’t bother me” some people will eventually explode.

Exactly. Women who don’t fit into their traditional gender role now have a big “out” thanks to feminism (not that being a woman in business or engineering or government is easy, far from it). Boys never received that. If a boy isn’t fitting his gender role society doesn’t know what to do with him.

I think we’re saying the same thing. What I meant is that as society we adjusted to pushing girls to be more than just housewives, but we didn’t consider that we could stop pushing boys to be football players and businessmen, lady killers.

Actually, you’re totally wrong. Restricting access to guns DOES in fact cut down on murder and suicide by gun. We can legislate gun and bullet access but not hearts. This is something we have power to change.

In addition to all of that firepower, they have people trained to kill the fuck out of you with their bare, fucking hands. People that can disarm all these Cheeto-eating, obese wannabe Rambos quicker than I could type this post.

I agree. We shifted towards making sure our girls were getting the same advantages then boys were always given, but didn’t think that we were taking a lot of care and concern away from the other side of the classrooms. There has to be a balance. Also, there needs to be empathy and mental care taught to younger people.…

Starred for truth. I’ve read a lot about gun violence and you can’t do that without learning about gun usage: in every armed rebellion since the start of the 20th century, the rebels are entirely ineffective without heavy weapons. Without mortars and artillery and tanks and jets and anti-aircraft weapons the rednecks…

This guy is like a dream board of traits that every person can blame for being particularly violent.

Thats also what sexism does. If a man is anything but a perfect “man” it is debilitating, especially for someone a bit borderline. We need to stop pigeonholing people into specific gendered roles. Its not healthy.