“because he’s a man and men like to have sex all the time, right?”

Yeah, it’s really odd that people are trying to find ways to blame him for responding honestly to something she pressed him about.

Everyone has their irrational moments. That you recognize your own puts you leagues beyond 99% of others that just double down. But I totally agree that unrelenting honesty can be insensitive. Honesty is a virtue, but so is tact.

I think you nailed it there.

Yes, that is obvious. But when she ASKS, and he answers honestly, why is he faulted for it?

#notallwomen

Well then, next time there’s a discussion of how bad the male gaze is, I’ll look forward to you and other women here sharing your opposing opinions on the matter instead of conforming to one simple view.

Yes, a man talking about what men think and feel. How dare I.

No, it really doesn’t work that way. It takes time to get comforable with an new partner, and women are just as bad at first.

How would you feel if the roles were reversed and someone broke up with you because he said the sex was bad?

Not nearly as good as your are at non sequiturs.

Are you denying that there isn’t a consistent message that men care too much about looks? Really?

But don’t women frequently complain about men being too obsessed with looks? That it’s what’s on the inside that’s important?

But 99% of the time the roles ARE reversed, and if a guy complains he always has to initiate sex he’s told to suck it up, that’s his role.

It’s really hard as women when your partner rarely initiates sex, when society conditions you that men want sex all the time.

And this is exactly why guys feel they can’t win, and women are always moving the goalpost.

Why is that soul crushing? How is that different from any other relationship in which someone initiates sex the majority of the time?

That one person?

She has to intitate sex most of the time.

Wonder Bread seeks Mayonaise to find the spice of life (no actual spice please).