You win.

Things SHOULD even out over the longer term. But they don’t really. I mean, when does splitting or taking turns actually come into play in most relationships? 10 dates? More?

My alma mater!

Ha, I can tell you’re just joking again. Real feminist women abort their sons, duh!

If I’m dating a white woman and she starts wondering why I never pay for anything, I mumble something about the moral arc of the universe and then start singing We Shall Overcome in the restaurant. Loudly.

The thing is it’s hard to know when a woman is playing games like that or not. It’s not like she’s going to tell me that she thinks less of me because I took up her offer to split a date (so I do so very sparinngly). I noticed you said you were moving back to DC. I would think this city would be more likely to have a…

See, and women wonder why men inisit on paying. It’s because of bullshit tests like this. Much of the time it’s not a nice gesture, it’s either to see if he accepts, in which case he’s now seen in a negative light, or it’s to show she’s not interested in any further dates.

If only it were kosher to put “must behave like a grown up” in my dating profile. I fear that’s still keeping the bar far too high.

White priviledge trumps everything dontcha know?

That’s nice in theory, but plenty of grown ass people can’t act grown up. So instead we get games like offering to pay for the second date, and if that offer is taken up, you’ve just become a cheapskate and there’s no date #3.

I WISH that were normal. But most women aren’t with check splitting until maybe well into relationship status.

Wow, what bullshit. So a rich woman should expect a poor guy to pay for everything, because patriarchy?

Okay, as long as I’m paying for all the dates, why should I care about pay equality? I mean, I’m gonna need more for all those dates!

I welcome this approach. But it’s tough to know when a woman is being sincere when she’s offering. I’ve had female friends tell me if they offer and the guy accepts to split the check, that’s a strike against the guy for being cheap. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.

Equality is SUPPOSED to cut both ways.

what kind of a lonely fuck would use one of those? The same chairsniffers who buy used women’s underwear off ebay?

Pretty much. She just lies there and doesn’t do anything and expects him to do all the work.

Yep, woman lays back, has guy do all the work, think she’s awesome at the sex.

That makes me curious. When women rape, was IS their excuse? Do they believe things like this? How does it work the other way? A different sense of entitlement?

And yet you’re posting this on Jezebel, where women post pictures of Tom Hiddleston’s or Benedict Cumberbatches asses to gawk at and objectify.