Open relationships y'all. What has worked for those of who've been in them or are in them now? Do/did you have a rule about who you can hook up with outside the relationship/how many times you can see them? How long into your relationship did you wait until opening it up? Any of you with insight on open vs. poly…

The Inviolable Songbird

I read an NPR story this morning about how California Chrome was sort of considered an inspiring underdog because he doesn't come from a prestigious bloodline, was bred in California and not Kentucky, has four white feet (considered bad luck in the sport) and the people who bought him were told that "only a dumb ass"…

Holy dopplebaby the young'n Jamie Foxx is hanging with is giving off scrazy (that's right, scary-crazy) Leo DiCaprio circa mid 90s vibes! At first I thought it was just the angle of the still image but I played the video and he's totally like him even in motion.

I shall name him Squishy and he shall be mine. And he shall be my Squishy.

Yep, could very easily see that being the endgame.

I'm on the side of the fence that firmly believes Franco is having a good laugh at all of us with these semi-trolly social media stunts.

Fairly certain the "Harry and Sally" mention was a joke.

I know! Believe me, I'd be on that if it was.

I onced swiped right on the Tinder profile of a bulldog. He was just really wrinkly and adorable, okay? But there was no euphemism-laced faux-bulldog dialogue, thank god.

Card carrying millenial here, I have no cable and watches all shows via my laptop.

You guys! I'm so effing bummed the Golden Girls full eps were taken down from YouTube!!!!! How am I going to get my nightly fix of biting wit, progressive social commentary and glorious 80s outfits all delivered via beloved lady characters?

I second all the suggestions for Moscato! Sweet, white and sparkling. I now find it too sweet myself but when I was starting out drinking that stuff was my jam! Another idea is alcoholic ciders! Much more common in the UK than the US but you can still buy a six pack at the liquor store.

Oh my god I was in 7th grade? 8th grade maybe? when the movie was out and it affected me for WEEKS. I had read the book right beforehand and then went to the movie and it just left me in this haze of romance and drama, like a super intense dream. Gah! I loved Shane West with an undying passion afterwards too. So glad…

Eh, air 'em out for a couple days, let 'em get a little stale and I'm sure I could take this guy on. Mmmmmmm stale Peeps FTW

There's also many different types of American Indian.

WANT

What propelled my sexuality was being wanted/desired.

I've used Tinder to date! There've been some hookups too, but two of the guys I've met off Tinder turned out to be more. The one that I'm still dating right now (he's 34, for reference) after a month says he's serious about me. So, there's hope!