Oh totally, I really get that impulse to try and focus on the not-so-perfect things about him! Thanks for suggesting it, because really that's what's doing the most to make this easier. As I described, he was pretty much as close to my "dream guy" as I could fathom, but there were two major things that stuck in my…
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I know, right? I almost wish he'd been a dick about it. But you're so right. It's good to remember that I will eventually not feel this way.
Who is Sam Vaknin? I have never heard of him/her but it will explore if you say it's worth it. I have never been able to get to the point with someone where they want to call me their girlfriend, and it's starting to bum me out. My sister who's five years my junior has serious long-term boyfriend. My cousin that's six…
Triangle Films can be a lot of fun if you're into lesbian stuff (which I am and I am a hetero woman). It's by women, starring women, for women. And the ladies seem like they're having fun. There's not long videos or anything though, just trailers for their DVDs, which are a couple/few minutes long each. But they can…
This is the list of some options I emailed my Mom when she asked for one:
Hoo boy, this one hurt folks. I've been dumped and I didn't see it coming. For background: he looks like Idris Elba's nerdy younger brother (hot x a billion), is always well dressed, has an awesome job at a beloved national media outlet I'm sure many of you consult daily, is culturally aware and super hip with a great…
Oh man. Dan Lauria is classic as the Arnold patriarch. Revisiting the show these days on Netflix, his character seems a tad softer to me than he did when I was a kid watching the show. I had remembered him being so imposing and intimidating. As an adult he comes across much more nuanced, and as you said, realistic.…
.....Wait. Dammit.
Because Zooey Deschanel stole Rob Reiner as my top pick for "guy I'd have play my dad on TV," I'll pipe up and say that Alan Alda is a close second.
Perfect little piles of chub LET ME SQUISH YOU
She looks gorgeous and fierce, though I wish the dress were a tad longer to balance it all out (not that she can't pull it off). Love the neckline, structured shoulders and sleeves (dear god, let's bring sleeves back to dresses in general), but given how short it is I know that I constantly be worried about/covering…
That's quite the.... *ahem*.... silhouette going on there.
AC: But do you consider yourself to be beautiful?
Also, Schmidt from New Girl is back as Leo!!! Huzzah. My mind was blown when I realized they were played by the same actor.
Please. Various white guys may not keep doing this shit publicly. And even when they do, because they don't have Chris Brown's reputation it isn't covered and they aren't hounded for it. Chris Brown is hardly an abberation in show business. There are wayyy too many abusive assholes with the money and influence to…
I used "dude" for a long time as a sort of benign term of mild affection for someone, or to emphasize when I was speaking to one person in particular. Never really meant much to me one way or the other, so when a good male friend told me he feels about "dude" the way women feel about being called "chicks" or "girls" I…
As a child of divorce, it all sounds uncomfortably/semi-hilariously familiar.
You and me both, baby.