charlottehasanewname
Charlottehasanewname
charlottehasanewname

Just send one text telling him he's an asshole and a bad fuck

This is something my best friend said to me ages ago when something similar happened to me: You trusting him and him breaking that trust does not reflect poorly on you for deciding to trust; it reflects poorly on him. Open, honest, loving people trust others - it is not a character flaw. The people who are dishonest

I'm in a weird head space, trying to be a little more social.

Please help me laugh by coming up with creative ways to tell my ex-fiance that he is a SUPER SHITTY at goodbye gifts. He gave me an STI.

For some background on the dildobrain I thought I'd marry, see my comment on a previous SNS: http://jezebel.com/my-fiance-and-….

I went to the gynecologist on Monday (for free,

Oh girl, we have ALL been there or someplace like it and it suuuuucks. I swear, no matter how smart or savvy you are, it's going to happen at least once because those are the dues you pay for being open to new experiences. The best thing you can do is go "Welp, that sucked." and after the initial fury/pain subsides

You are neither used, stupid or dirty. You are having a normal reaction to an abnormal situation. I really have nothing to offer that will give you instant relief other than my vast experience in this area. Time is the balm that heals all wounds, and you will heal. You did the right thing by deleting him and if you

I passed my test for my Master's Captain's license and got my towing and sailing endorsements! WOOHOO!!Done with 8 hours of testing! NOW TIME FOR ALCOHOL!

FUCK that guy. I hope his girlfriend leaves him the same day he slams his thumb in the car door so hard the nail falls off.

Of course you fell for it. Of course you let yourself be open and vulnerable and let him in and love and feel loved, because you're a human being. You're a human being with a healthy heart and a healthy attitude and all the parts of you are still whole and functioning and not broken. You aren't stupid for falling for

Last Sunday my husband told me he wants to move out. He needs to be single and figure out what he wants in life. After months of couples therapy and ten years together, there's nothing else I can do. I can't make him stay married to me. Now I'm applying for jobs in different cities, since I only moved to this town for

I really need to vent. I'm hungover and heartbroken and feeling ridiculously stupid.

Yesterday night, me and my guys were hanging out at someone's house, around a fire and we were drinking. We started talking about the Ray Rice incident, and for the first time ever, I disclosed my rape and abusive relationship to my friends.

I like how he has his pinky up - so dainty!

my first thought exactly!

Not the teeth, not the teeth!

This made me crack up the first time I saw it—this is probably practice for his after-hours activities.

My sister and I laugh about how absurd it is that we used to buy candy cigarettes from the ice cream man and pretend to smoke when we were young. Gross.

My dad didn't abuse me and I still smoke pot all day!

can't wait to hear all my friends say "what's the big deal my dad abused me and I'm better for it" while they pop pills and smoke pot all day... it's always so fun

friend of mine has both Rice and Peterson on his fantasy league.