You’re a very scared, very unhappy person. And you don’t know the first thing about women. Why is that? You simply just do not see us as human beings but as objects to insert “time” and “kindness” tokens into so you can get sex out. You’re a sad little clown. And you’re ripping yourself off but you think you’re…

He’s baiting you. He’s so full of shit. This is the caliber of man most hetero women get. The men who have known, valued and understood me as a human being most have been gay men. They didn’t want anything from me, but they still loved me, still wanted to know me. Imagine that. As a person. It was so novel it makes me…

Hetero guy here. I wish I could say that you’re wrong, but setting rape aside, there is way too sizable a portion of the male population that has no respect for women/treats them as objects. What you said is key...they think that not raping women is like some gold standard of behavior and because they wouldn’t do…

Horrible, and also true. And the more you become aware of it, and of the breadth and depth of the swath of society that feels this way, the more awful the big picture gets.

It sometimes takes many years to find out the truth about rapes among your family and friends. The trauma and pain are that closely held. How would they not be? Just be patient and understanding and eventually, esp. if you talk about your own bad experiences, it all comes out. I have one friend out of about about 8…

I think that really was it: they bonded with the hetero boys that way— a common enemy, us. Once you’ve accepted your inherent superiority to anyone, it’s a hard habit to break. :(

It is terrifying isn’t it? You know what it reminds me of (when I’m not near a rage-stroke from anger and fear)? How racist whites (read: a HUGE proportion of them) responded to Obama winning the Presidency: complete, unhinged fury. He’s a foriegner, he’s Muslim, he’s going to make concentration camps for whites (I…

I think it’s much the same. My husband works in an overwhelmingly male workplace, and the sexist and racist stuff his colleagues go on about is shocking. And my husband is brown, but I guess that means they think he is “one of the good ones,” the guy they probably talk about outside of work as evidence they aren’t…

Yeah, that would be a problem. Just stay around gay men. Although there are a fair number of them who are plenty misogynist. Still, they don’t look at us as sex toys to trick/rape/laugh at, so... it’s something.

Women are coming forward with their rapes more than we did 5 years ago. Yer average hetero male, who as you said correctly hates women but is unaware of his hatred/objectification (he loves fucking ‘em!), is frightened and enraged by this. These sluts are obviously lying because all women except his mom and sister are…

You need a new job. Sounds like you work with a bunch of scumbags.

You really should look for a job away from City Hall/Cook County Building.