I love you, fun fact: I know people who are really in close with the Chicago hockey community, Kane is known for engaging exclusively in the kind of penetrative sex that cannot result in pregnancy.... the implications of that knowledge lead a lot of them to believe that he may have violated her consent even if it was…

No, it’s not baffling, I am also a human who understands why people gravitate towards people who are horrible. And I do have skin in the game, I love a lot of women who have loved shitty men. I even liked the guys because I trusted the opinions of the women until I found out the whole story, imagine that! This…

You get it so hard, It’s stunning this conversation is happening on deadspin (deadspin is cool but not this cool)! Thank you. I really appreciate your comments tonight! You are a great person.

Hey friend, I have dated a few women (like a lot of queer men) and I am not really sure how that factors in to believing that we have a huge cultural problem regarding sex and sexual violence,

I like almost want to try to explain this to you but you seem pathologically opposed to opening your eyes. Stevie Wonder is more aware of what is going on around him than you are my man.

What boggles the mind is how pervasive it has gotten since.. lets say ‘fringe’ even though women are actually a global majority, interests have gained traction. Like guys who are otherwise totally cool have revealed how they really just... do not like women. I don’t know. As a person who really just loves women and…

Ok :) you could also just try listing to women. Hugs.

Thank you. “Listen to women.” Repeat that mantra, boys, please. You will have a lightbulb moment if you just take the time to hear the voice of someone without your exact life experience. I could write 50,000 words here or you could just start listing to the women that surround and sustain you.

#notallmen amiright bro?? I’m not a good guy, I’m just a fag with empathy. Duh it’s not LITERALLY EVERYONE, but it is culturally acceptable and pervasive and corrosive. I noted that reasonable guys are often in the dark on this, but this is fucking reality, rape culture exists and if you cant see it that is actually…

You are so right about everything and it makes me want to cry. I do not know ONE woman who was not sexually assaulted. I used to think all those stats were blown out of proportion until I started listing to women. Every. single. girl. that I know has experienced sexual violence. And people are always asking me why I…

Absolutely. They even think they are fucking making you “one of the guys” when they do that, i don’t even think they are aware of their desperate need to subjugate. It is delusional and it is pervasive.

Oh girl, preach! When I’m hanging out with fam and they get misogynistic... the world makes no damn sense. Maybe it was their only way to bond with straight dudes growing up? Women are gross? Ugh I want to swallow my butt and die.

They are short circuiting, they literally cannot deal. It would be satisfying if they weren’t still in charge of everything which makes it absolutely terrifying!

Problem is I like men. Like, a lot.

Its astounding, and also SO widespread. I think that many reasonable hetero guys get cut out of a lot of this. But between my experiences and those of my sister it seems there are a shocking number of normal seeming men who HATE women. They don’t know that they hate women, they think they are great guys because they…

Ur soooOoo cool, and wrong! Kisses tho.

Work will be unbearable if this suit goes nowhere, I’m in Chicagoland and if this ends up being dismissed this will be all I hear about re:Patrick Kane’s case. I will be inundated with this “evidence” that “bitches” are all “thirsty sluts” and “stupid whores” who just want money and attention. More than one person…