I sometimes feel like I’m having to act out something he’s seen, and he needs very very specific things to enjoy it. I think porn has a definite role in that - it’s like there’s a formula that has to be followed.

Purely anecdotal, but: (straight, male) porn addicts are the worst lays.

considering how misogynistic mainstream porn can be, in regards to hetero relationships you can’t really compare unless the women are watching a lot of misandrist porn that degrades and humiliates men and solely concentrates on the woman’s pleasure and ignores or delegitimises the man’s pleasure. even then because of…

Not just how men see women, but how women see ourselves. Young girls look, too, and then they get unrealistic ideas about what their bodies “should” look like. Now we have websites like Glamour.com running articles for women saying, “it’s ok to have labia that are uneven, or large, or small...” How would any girl…

I don’t know what to say except I’m sorry and I’m thankful that you felt safe sharing this here. You’re not alone. More than one woman close to me lived through relationships like this, and porn was involved in their abuse.

My ex husband used to do the same to me, he forced me to watch porn and do the same things we watched, sometimes he used to force me to have sex 5 or six times per day, I felt like a sex slave. If I was sick or sored I needed to apologize to him and compensate him the next day. And I never told this to anyone but I…

We had “clean porn”. Try reading Fanny Hill sometime, or check out early Playboy. It didn’t stay that way because people habituated, and needed a stronger fix.

I say that if pursuing this calling helps her feel better, then we leave her be. She’s not likely to convince anyone of anything, nor harm anyone else.

Oh, man, there was a HFCS ad a few years back with the actress who played Buffy’s demon college roommate in s4 of BtVS. It was SO embarrassing. Buffy’s roommate was all “You know what they say about HFCS, right?” And the other actress said, “What do they say? That it’s MADE FROM CORN?”

But the whole avocado toast thing has GOT to have something to do with it? I ordered it at breakfast the other day because it was the only thing I could stomach and I got a piece of artisanal bread the size of a deck of cards with what seemed to be about four mashed avocados piled on top. WTF? I felt guilty cause I…

BobbySerious, Gawker’s resident rape apologist/rapist*, once explained at length that he didn’t care how many peer-reviewed studies showed that women do drastically more housework than men — he knows for a fact that he and his friends do AT LEAST half the housework in their homes, and that’s WAY better evidence than…

The perception gap is so fucking real and goddamn depressing. We see it on a macro and micro level.

I still think she’s s gold digger, but I also 100% believe Depp abused her and that being a gold digger doesn’t mean you deserve to be hit. Being a gold digger gets a bad wrap, but it’s just honest and pragmatic, and money isn't the worst reason in the world to get hitched.

Not from me. Bill Murray another alcoholic wife beater. He does have mercy tho. Like he told his ex after he beat the shit out of her, she was lucky he didn’t kill her.

Nah, I don’t. He’s always been a grade A cock; it’s just for a good long while he was surrounded by irredeemable shitheads like Chevy Chase who make grade A cocks look good in comparison.

I’ve seen a number of photos of Johnny Depp where his fingernails are encrusted with dirt. That’s pretty gross.

Always gross, but we all know Johnny Depps from our late teens and early twenties. Aloof, mysterious guy with greasy hair, always up for an interesting time (at least superficially, whole lotta mess if you go into deep personal topics) who just doesn’t care about the mainstream bullshit. Maybe he majors in [select…

His 20s were full of stories of him trashing hotel rooms, attacking random people who mildly offended him, doing ridiculously dangerous things, and intentionally self-injuring. We noticed. We just labeled him as an exciting bad boy who seemingly calmed down when he took up with Vanessa Paradis.

I would have preferred she keep some of that for herself, but she knows what she’s doing, and I hope the experience does not cause further impact on her life and career.

Amber Heard is obviously just donating to charity for the money!