What about those of us who have been shitting plenty, but they aren’t good poos? They’re all sludgy and leave you feeling gross rather than invigorated, which is how a poo SHOULD make you feel.

Oh but we totally do stop having sex. In truthiness, all couples stop having sex, if they’re together for a long time. It’s like...a few times, my doctor and I agreed I should stop taking my adderrall, rather than up my dosage. Then after a few weeks I started up at a low dose, and jr worked better than it had in a…

I call those “the good old days”. But don’t listen to me, I think a lot of couples keep that up over a lifetime! Some ebb/flow, sure, but don’t listen to people who say your sex life dies after marriage, or after 10 yrs, or whatever. If you work on it and feel good about yourself in the day-to-day, you’re gonna have a…

True story: I had the plague last week, but my husband was only in town for 2 days this month (!!) and I thought, plague or no plague, this dude is gonna get me off.

Every day?!

Apparently he really resented “hallelujah”! He felt like he got defined by it.

The Stranger Song

It’s cool. I really do understand your frustration. Feels like we’re all just shells of our former selves, blowing around trying to figure out what the fuck just happened. Apology not necessary, thoughtfulness appreciated. I hope your night is peaceful

Teach them well and help them lead the way... http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/school-pupils-chant-donald-trumps-9235113

I was wrapping several responses into yours. I do appreciate the perspective, of course I will talk with her. WITH her. We have to learn, on both sides.

Duly noted! She has a right to vote without losing her job, though

Well said! My nanny is my power animal. I would never let her go (well, not over her vote, anyway).

I’ve already given her amazing references, I’m her 2nd string employment. She puts my kid to bed 2 nights a week when I have class. I’ll take care of mine, thanks.

Oh. It’s math?! lol thanks for clearing that up

Thank you.

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I am not jumping down your throat. I am asking why, in this circumstance, you are telling me race is a pivot point. If I ask you calmly why that is and you become indignant, I just have to say goodnight to you.

Hmm. I’m gonna need more. Do you have kids? have you ever had to leave them with someone, in order to go to work? And you have the delightful privilege of making sure they are affiliated with your political beliefs IN ADDITION to loving your child in a beautiful, unfliching way that you never saw with any other…

Oh I knew I was being a dick. But we are chill. She knows I love her, she loves me, we really work together and respect each other.

Well you said “but I’m not white so IDK how this plays out in that field”. So that’s why I asked.