Is it possible? Yeah, that’s probably the precise reason. But we’ll never know (until trumps next interview with Lester Holt. “You know, I said to myself this Paris thing is made up. And I shake hands better than anyone.”)

I feel like it’s incredibly likely to have been a deciding factor. Certainly not the only one, but I bet Trump was thinking about it while making the final decision.

No, he wants to dismantle everything that happened under Obama. Good, Bad? He wants to erase the legacy of the Obama administration.

That’s an interesting and horrifying thought. Sad that I feel like it could actually be plausible.

Here’s a horrifying thought. Is it possible that Trump pulled us out of the PARIS Accords because France’s leader Macron tried to out macho him when they met and shook hands last week and said so in public recently?

Will consider if name is acceptable. I had a middle school science teacher called Mrs. Butts. I want none of that. Who CHOOSES to be Mrs. Butts? And then teaches middle school?

But I digress.

We lived together for a long time (5 years) and things didn’t really change afterwards. Advice - try to be as kind and gentle as possible as often as possible. Laugh with each other as much as possible. Make a habit of talking openly about everything. Buy or make little gifts for the other person for no reason …

This is awesome! Make sure someone brings you food—it’s can be really hard to eat anything at your own reception. When my sister got married, we packed up all the hors d’oeuvres and put them in a cooler in their getaway car so they could eat something (and have some of the food they picked!)

Maybe your family isn’t like mine, but mine drove me craaaaazy leading up to the wedding with their suggestions and their neediness and their failure to RSVP and their criticism. And although my parents have perfectly functional cell phones, my relatives were still calling ME to ask me things like where to find the…

If you’re ever feeling low or unsure about the relationship, try doing something for your partner that brings them joy. You’d be surprised what an upper that can be. Much luck and congratulations to you! Hope your wedding is a blast.

Ugh, that’s trash. I’m sorry. And it doesn’t sound like your boss was helpful, either. Multiple problems with a patron harassing staff members or other patrons should be grounds for a ban (either temporary or permanent), and explaining why you were a target feels weirdly victim-blame-y. And yes, dudes are mad…

Ohhh congrats! I lived with my husband for years before getting married and it felt exactly the same afterward. But for the actual wedding day, I didn’t have a wedding planner/day-of coordinator, and I wish I’d gone over every detail of the schedule more closely.

Please and thank you must always be part of the conversation. Even if you don’t have kids date night is important. Do your thank you notes IMMEDIATELY. Don’t go overboard on the honeymoon sex. We had so much the day after the wedding I was raw for a week. It’s okay to spread it out!

I hate that you are being targeted and harassed by a perv. Old pervs are awful to deal with because so many people try to get you to let it slide due to age.

Congrats! As for advice, just fight fair when you have to, and remember that saying something bothered you right after it happens is 1000x better than letting it blow up as an argument later. Try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes from time to time, because lack of empathy can destroy relationships. On the other…

He asked if I was married, and I was like “I will be in a few months.” And he goes “that’s plenty of time.” And gave me this gross smile and wink. I wanted to stab him in the eye with a knitting needle.

Getting married in a week. Advice, cautionary tales, anything really 😬

Dudes are the worst and we’re very exhausting.

There’s an old man (really old...like 90) who insisted on being gross and creepy with me at my job in a library last weekend. I talked to my boss, who said they’ve had problems with him in the past, and that he probably targeted to me because I come off as “feminine and passive” due to my southern accent. She said…

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