You realize there are bad people everywhere right? It’s fine if you don’t like any of it and suspect it is unhealthily. It is not fine to pretend your feelings are facts.

Did I say that they were demigods? I said that consent was a foundational concept in the community, which your own data supports.

Nor have I ever covered myself or my partner in mayonnaise.

Fuck off, mayonnaise sex with the light off , pearl clutching fake feminist.

The BDSM community holds consent as sacred. If you were at all familiar with the subject you would know this. Please don’t declare people as not ‘normal’ when you clearly are talking out of your ass.

I’m someone who likes rough stuff and went to therapy in part because I felt like a freak because some men I was with told me I was broken/gross/not a real feminist. I struggled for years to deny the things I wanted, even though it comes from a place of fun and adventure, and I’ve had some very healthy, positive…

I second this! I always come on excited for it, then its not here, then I get busy cooking dinner or whatever, and then log on at like, 945-10 oclock and theres 500+ replies and I don’t bother posting since I’m grey and all my very important comments will be lost in the fray...

Can we just do the SNS already..........:/

Lindy’s resilience, strength, and tremendous writing are aspirational.

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Sounds more like you’d be telling her for your sake than hers. When in reality it’s not about you anymore.

Yeah, I’m not even a hill staffer, and I’ve been berated for stapling something horizontally instead of vertically before. I think this is just an asshole boss thing?

She’ll figure it out if she doesn’t already know. I would loathe hearing something like this from the side chick.

Boo hoo.

Or you could fucking google some shit?

That’s ridiculous. Honestly. Women are perfectly able to have healthy pregnancies and healthy kids later in life. And the prenatal testing available nowadays means that you get a pretty good sense of potential issues early on. Also, it varies from woman to woman — some 40-year old women could easily conceive and carry…

of course you have some connection to one of the BEST GYNECOLOGISTS IN THE WORLD.

Why are miscarriages so hard to talk about?